When she asks you to dance with her friend

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When she asks you to dance with her friend

Postby Rembrandt » Thu Dec 13, 2007 12:15 am

I'm a good dancer and so chicks always come up to me and ask me to dance with their friend....and I've learned that if a chick is asking you to dance with her friend the friend is 99% of the time not attractive.

Should I just say no? even if the girl asking is hot?.....That's what I've been doing lately. I know I come off as kind of a dick, but it's never led to anything in the past when i did dance with the ugly friend and I'm getting tired of charity work. If an ugly chick asks me to dance herself I'm a lot more likely to dance with them for one song just to be nice, but I really hate it when their friend asks for them (probably because it happens more often).
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Postby Finesse » Thu Dec 13, 2007 12:26 am

Ignore and stack into a story. If youre in a club enviroment you could reasonably "not have heard her".
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Postby zine » Thu Dec 13, 2007 12:27 am

"well if she wants to dance with me she should ask. I don't bite... most the time :p"

have the friend make her own decision about it at the very least. You could also involve them both. "Hmmm, alright I will dance with whichever one of you is the sexiest dancer" then she must prove her sexiness to you which is always a good thing.
If you just plain don't want to dance with the friend then don't, but I'd really recommend at least involving the friend because if you get along with her friends you will more than likely be better liked by her.
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Postby Finesse » Thu Dec 13, 2007 12:31 am

The question always has to be asked, "Is this helping me accomplish the goal (a lay) or just cockblocking me?"

If you go and dance with her ugly friend, what is the likelyhood some douche is going to come up and possibly take her off your hands?

Its just one of those situations where you have to calibrate in field.
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Postby Check_Mate » Thu Dec 13, 2007 1:35 am

zine wrote: then she must prove her sexiness to you which is always a good thing.


The problem here is that the ugly friend probably called "dibs" on him and the hot one might underperform scared of cockblocking the ugg.

(shouldn't it be called pussyblocking since it involves two girls?)
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Postby icecreamlova » Thu Dec 13, 2007 5:51 am

Dance with the chick in front, having fun and having a good time, but still keeping your frame that its JUST for FUN. Don't give her anything to work off and while you keep the chick in front, start grinding behind her friend (if possible). If not just keep your frame and pull her using the classic fishing rod trick or any other method.

Dancing with a chick gives you INSTANT DHV, so its always better to dance with some chick (unless shes hideous) and work off that, then do nothing.
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Postby Smirks » Thu Dec 13, 2007 7:25 am

"Ok, but you're coming too."

Dance w/ the ugg for a bit, then switcherooo.
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Postby Thaddeus » Mon Dec 17, 2007 2:39 am

I would say you should just incorporate them both. Become the oreo pua get them on both sides of you then your able to have the oportunity to escalate with them both and set up posibilities for later... remember that social proofing is one of the greatest ways to get laid.
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