Finesse wrote:You dont put the ball in her court is what I am saying, you want to maintain control of the interaction, but like they said you dont want to come across as needy. I usually tell them about the midget I saw chasing a dog that they lost the leash to, that reminded me of them. They 90% of the time ask why that reminds me of them and I tell them well she was (insert ethnicity here).
I like that one.
I use a text like, "I saw the cutest puppy today. It reminded me of you." They'll say, "why did it remind you of me?", and I'll say, "it had big brown eyes and drooled a lot" or "it had pretty reddish hair like you. You two must use the same shampoo." They'll say something like, "I don't know whether to take that as a compliment or an insult," and I'll say, "well I did say that it was a CUTE puppy."
Being a ball buster after sex is good. The other night a girl said, "you have to stay the night. You can't just fuck and run." I said, "nope. I'm going to be a phantom. You'll wake up and I'll be gone." Of course I was exhausted, so I stayed, and she screwed up setting the alarm and I had to rush out in the morning rather than secretly leaving. But it wasn't like she had the power. I got to tease her about not being able to operate an alarm clock. What Finesse said is right about push/pull. For example, if you have sex early, you can say that you have a date later or something like that. Make it seem like you're joking, but also like you COULD BE telling the truth.
