by Guest » Mon Oct 11, 2010 9:51 am
[QUOTE=Prodigy;38007]As funny as that was, I wish all my past partners would write something like that for me (of course only for me to see). The feedback would let me know what I am doing right (or wrong) and in the end, make me a much better lover...[/QUOTE]
I think the book would be meaningless. Girls can never articulate fully what they like for a guy to do because they're not wired to admit that they love it when their man takes their pussy.
You want to be a great lover? Focus on pleasing yourself and yourself alone. Do whatever you want with her and make it clear that you're enjoying yourself thoroughly. Make it known to her that she is doing what she, as a woman, is meant to do: make her man happy.
Quick story. A couple of years ago, I dated an HB7 for about 18 months or so. She was the last girl I dated before I got in the Community. Anyway, sex with her was always a challenge. I repeatedly tried to talk with her about what she wanted. Finally, I got fed up...
I didn't see or talk to her for a couple of days. Then, one day after I got home from the gym, I sent her a text.
Bull Run: "Come over"
HB: "Why?"
Bull Run: "Because I want to cum all over you..."
HB: "I'll be there in 5"
I poured a drink for me, not for her. Turned on some sex music. Opened my front door. And sat on my kitchen counter. When she walked, I told her to strip. She did. Then I told her that I wanted to see her crawl on her knees to me. She did. She blew me while I was sitting on the counter while I was drinking my drink. I was completely and totally indifferent towards her pleasure. I have tiled floors, it hurts your knees to crawl on them...but I didn't fucking care.
Then I fucked the shit out of her. I mean I fucking gave it to her. Smacked her big, beautiful ass. Choked her a little bit. Pulled her hair. Bite her on the back (I left marks). Told her she was my whore and this is what a real man wants and what a real woman does for her man. She agreed and starting calling herself a whore. Then, I finished. Don't know if she came, didn't care.
I told her to go home. She did. 20 minutes later, she sent me this text:
HB: "I've been fucking my vibrator for 15 minutes...came twice...batteries are dead now."
Bull Run: "Come back over"
She did. Then, I fucked her in the ass. She never would up to that point, but I just took it and she loved the whole idea.
It was the first time I was Alpha with her in the sack. Normally, I was totally Beta trying to please her and make the experience enjoyable for her. I realized right then and there that women want to be used by an Alpha male that they care for.
If she was to write something in a book, she would never in a million years say I want a man to use me like a whore. Virtually no woman would say that (true whores do though). A book would be useless, unless every girl you've fucked was a true whore. In which case, you'd probably be shocked at the things women REALLY want in the sack.