Last Night at Finn

[Vector]

I think you may be right about the genuine connection also. It's important to give non-physical reasons that you like her. (Except I think with cougars you can sometimes get away without it hahaha) Even if she was looking for a hookup with no strings attached, she still needs to feel like she knows the real you.

But it seemed to me she was also resisting the relationship frame.

You'll know what to do next time.

[Guest]

Update: She flaked. Damn.

[Guest]

[b]Update: She flaked. Damn. [/b]

You still see the whole thing as a success though, yeah? It doesn't sound like you could've done this three weeks ago. But now you can. So flake or not, you've made progress and that's fucking awesome.

[Guest]

Parametric makes a good point.
It's always good to keep the perspective of how far we have come in this game. It's always easy to see the one that got away.

Theres a tough balance between being satisfied with our improvement, but yet, not letting our improvement slack by always moving forward.

[Guest]

awesome thread. Everyone into pick-up should read this ish.