OK so before we went out of town this week I signed up at chemistry.com on a lark. I figured it couldn't hurt... well new me must be giving off some crazy confidence vibes or something, cuz I'm inundated.. basically I have dates every day starting tomorrow til Monday with different girls... well except monday monday is a d2 if lunch goes well tomorrow. Will be taking the chick to Six Flags (I got free passes/parking) curious to see how taking a date there goes!
Am I crazy for setting up dates all week instead of sarging? The girl I'm going to lunch with tomorrow already talked about meeting up with guys who are players through there lol. I'm a little afraid I'll actually like one of these girls and then end up setting back my progress... at the same time while I like sarging... I'm doing it to get dates and I like having more with a girl than a basic convo to pick them up.
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So much for sarging this week.. am I crazy?
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by Guest » Tue Aug 26, 2008 11:43 pm
True dat... the girl I'm going out with tomorrow looks pretty hot if she's like her picture... spicey, firey puerto rican -- me likey :) at the least may be good practice juggling dating multiple women I guess
If anyone has any special tips for women you meet online let me know lol
it will be good practice tho... all of them are a bit different so it'll be good at the least working on handling these different types of women and finding out which type i like best ;)
Any special tips on juggling multiple women at once I've never really dated several at the same time and have a feeling I'm going to get myself in trouble somehow :) I already had one call tonight I had no idea for the first five minutes which one I was talking to lol
If anyone has any special tips for women you meet online let me know lol
it will be good practice tho... all of them are a bit different so it'll be good at the least working on handling these different types of women and finding out which type i like best ;)
Any special tips on juggling multiple women at once I've never really dated several at the same time and have a feeling I'm going to get myself in trouble somehow :) I already had one call tonight I had no idea for the first five minutes which one I was talking to lol
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by Guest » Wed Aug 27, 2008 1:29 pm
I've met lots of girls online. You can definitely weed a few out by talking to them on the phone. Also be prepared for lotsa last minute flakes! Confirm your date 5hrs before its supposed to happen, then call before you leave. Once I had enough ho's on my ho'line I instituted the one flake yo azz is out rule.
Don't spend any money on these bitches for first dates. It won't get you anywhere trust me. Meet for drinks and maybe buy them some cheese sticks if they give ya the "I wanna licky u dicky" eyes. If it goes good then jet to another joint.
Do not mention your ex! It does nothing to promote that you are Mr. Fun guy. Tell her lots of stories that demonstrate you as high value. Keep it light. Leave them with some mystery about you.
Don't spend any money on these bitches for first dates. It won't get you anywhere trust me. Meet for drinks and maybe buy them some cheese sticks if they give ya the "I wanna licky u dicky" eyes. If it goes good then jet to another joint.
Do not mention your ex! It does nothing to promote that you are Mr. Fun guy. Tell her lots of stories that demonstrate you as high value. Keep it light. Leave them with some mystery about you.
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by Guest » Thu Aug 28, 2008 11:05 am
Ok, so here's what I've learned from online game:
1) In general, I feel like the quality of the girls online are lower than that if you were to meet them in person. A lot of chicks have a profile for no other reason than to make themselves feel better...you know positive reinforcement.
2) Pics are definitely deceiving. Generally, people post only the best pics of themselves online. Makes sense right? My criteria for determining if she is really hot or if it's just a flattering pic is as follows:
a) A shit ton of pics, I mean at least a dozen (all girls, that are cool and social should have a bunch of pics to post). This does a couple of things, first it subcommunicates that she's somewhat normal (girls love pics), it gives you a bunch of different opportunities to cross-reference her hottness.
b) I look for a handful of pics of her with her friends. Subcommunicates that she's got some level of a social life, also ugs tend to hang with ugs, fats tend to hang with fats, hotties tend to hang with hotties. If her friends are all 6s and she appears to be an 8/9 then chances are that she's really just a 6. I've found though that the opposite doesn't hold true, no idea why.
c) At least one close up and one body shot.
d) At least one pic of her in a casual situation as well as a dressy situation.
e) Finally, I always take the worst picture and determine what she looks like from there. Chances are that this is what she REALLY looks like, if not it's a nice surprise ;)
3) There are at least three different broad categories of online places to meet someone:
a) Social Networking Sites (ie MySpace, Friendbook, various chat rooms) -- These are generally very, very cold approaches and the name of the game is numbers. On places like MySpace you shouldn't write much of anything about yourself, just have pics of yourself and the things you like, as well as cool songs and videos. Let the profile tell the story without them being forced to read. I typically use low investment openers to get the conversation started. I call these Drive By Openers...you drop a 2 sentence e-mail and then move on to the next profile. The girls from these places tend to be the same type of girl you meet in a bar/club...whores looking to have fun.
b) Free Dating Sites -- I've found that I'm most successful with a MySpace like opener, i.e. Drive By Opener. The chicks on here tend to call you out on canned shit so be prepared for that. If they do call you out, chances are you're done so push the envelope...you don't have much to lose. I've only met a handful of girls from these sources, so it's hard to say what they're really like. But my impression is that a lot of these girls are just there for positive reinforcement. I haven't been very impressed with the quality of girls here.
c) Pay sites. In my opinion, girls here are looking for a relationship of some type. I'm not saying that you can't fuck them on the first date, because I have many times. Even before I've been in the Game I was able to close them on the first date, the difference between now and then was it took at least 2-3 long as phone conversations to build the comfort necessary to close her. Now it's just sort of a few e-mails, a couple of texts, one date, and then a lay. I usually hit up a pay site once every few months, otherwise it gets stale. The WORST offender for LTR seeking girls is...eHarmony. The WORST!!!
4) Rarely, if ever, do I call them on the phone. I've only had one flake on me. Calling on the phone just seems to put you in the potential boyfriend zone and I try to avoid that at all costs with people I've never met.
There's a shit ton more to online Game than the above, I just thought I'd spill out my thoughts given the thread.
Hopefully I didn't highjack your thread Justice.
Anyway, I don't really run much online Game any longer because the quality generally sucks. But, if I want to stack a week or weekend with dates just for the hell of it to practice then I'll troll around on the net for a week or so.
1) In general, I feel like the quality of the girls online are lower than that if you were to meet them in person. A lot of chicks have a profile for no other reason than to make themselves feel better...you know positive reinforcement.
2) Pics are definitely deceiving. Generally, people post only the best pics of themselves online. Makes sense right? My criteria for determining if she is really hot or if it's just a flattering pic is as follows:
a) A shit ton of pics, I mean at least a dozen (all girls, that are cool and social should have a bunch of pics to post). This does a couple of things, first it subcommunicates that she's somewhat normal (girls love pics), it gives you a bunch of different opportunities to cross-reference her hottness.
b) I look for a handful of pics of her with her friends. Subcommunicates that she's got some level of a social life, also ugs tend to hang with ugs, fats tend to hang with fats, hotties tend to hang with hotties. If her friends are all 6s and she appears to be an 8/9 then chances are that she's really just a 6. I've found though that the opposite doesn't hold true, no idea why.
c) At least one close up and one body shot.
d) At least one pic of her in a casual situation as well as a dressy situation.
e) Finally, I always take the worst picture and determine what she looks like from there. Chances are that this is what she REALLY looks like, if not it's a nice surprise ;)
3) There are at least three different broad categories of online places to meet someone:
a) Social Networking Sites (ie MySpace, Friendbook, various chat rooms) -- These are generally very, very cold approaches and the name of the game is numbers. On places like MySpace you shouldn't write much of anything about yourself, just have pics of yourself and the things you like, as well as cool songs and videos. Let the profile tell the story without them being forced to read. I typically use low investment openers to get the conversation started. I call these Drive By Openers...you drop a 2 sentence e-mail and then move on to the next profile. The girls from these places tend to be the same type of girl you meet in a bar/club...whores looking to have fun.
b) Free Dating Sites -- I've found that I'm most successful with a MySpace like opener, i.e. Drive By Opener. The chicks on here tend to call you out on canned shit so be prepared for that. If they do call you out, chances are you're done so push the envelope...you don't have much to lose. I've only met a handful of girls from these sources, so it's hard to say what they're really like. But my impression is that a lot of these girls are just there for positive reinforcement. I haven't been very impressed with the quality of girls here.
c) Pay sites. In my opinion, girls here are looking for a relationship of some type. I'm not saying that you can't fuck them on the first date, because I have many times. Even before I've been in the Game I was able to close them on the first date, the difference between now and then was it took at least 2-3 long as phone conversations to build the comfort necessary to close her. Now it's just sort of a few e-mails, a couple of texts, one date, and then a lay. I usually hit up a pay site once every few months, otherwise it gets stale. The WORST offender for LTR seeking girls is...eHarmony. The WORST!!!
4) Rarely, if ever, do I call them on the phone. I've only had one flake on me. Calling on the phone just seems to put you in the potential boyfriend zone and I try to avoid that at all costs with people I've never met.
There's a shit ton more to online Game than the above, I just thought I'd spill out my thoughts given the thread.
Hopefully I didn't highjack your thread Justice.
Anyway, I don't really run much online Game any longer because the quality generally sucks. But, if I want to stack a week or weekend with dates just for the hell of it to practice then I'll troll around on the net for a week or so.
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