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Postby Guest » Fri Jun 20, 2008 8:26 am

I wanted to clear something up. When I gave them the $5 and said just keep the change. They said are you sure? I said, yeah, I am donating it to your class. Then I joked, besides, I may be taking some classes with you someday (joking about how if I flunk a class I may be held back to their class or if I go on special schedule)
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Postby Guest » Fri Jun 20, 2008 8:56 am

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Good point on taking a shower before, I think it also goes to be said, make sure I shave my head, face etc before going to complete the clean look. I dont use a ton of cologne but I wear enough on my neck/chest that when I give a woman a hug they tell me I smell good. I will try the crotch and back thing although I am not fully sure why. I can understand the crotch area somewhat, but not the back...
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lol k I'll explain my cologne spray locations.

On the back: I prefer subtlety when it comes to scent. I don't want it to overwhelm when I'm hugged or stood close to, but catch the nostril when I pass...to grab attention.

Crotch of jeans/pants: Reminder of that scent as she's unzipping... : )
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Postby Guest » Fri Jun 20, 2008 11:28 am

On the escalation:
Keep in mind that you started the conversation by talking about creeps from facebook, a category she could have easily put you in. Then you went to her wearing only the boots. I think you put her in a bad frame from the jump. You gave her a hint that you might be a creep and then you might have confirmed that fact. I think it would have been better to either not mention how you got her number, or say something like, "you know if you give your number on facebook you might have a fun and exciting guy text you at 11:30 and distract you. You wouldn't want that, would you?"

On the neg:
I didn't take it as a neg. There was no compliment there. You came across as affected, which is bad. And you backtracked from your joke. If she didn't like your joke, then maybe she'll like the next one. Don't apologize.

On cologne:
Choose a cologne that smells good when mixing with your skin. The oils on your skin will mix with the cologne and make a scent that is distinct to you. You get the best scent from the wrists and neck, because there are major arteries there and they are exposed. If you spray it on at least 2 hours before you're with women, then it won't be too strong. I don't agree about the crotch. You don't want to mask the natural musky smell of sex that attracts women. The whole reason you have pubic hair is to trap that musky smell. Women have an evolutionarily developed attraction to that smell. Go ahead and spray it on your lower back if you want a hint of the smell when she's going down on you, but I personally don't see the point. If she's that close to putting your cock in her mouth, it's a done deal anyway. Why not trigger those receptors that will make her pussy wet and make the little man in the boat start rocking?

In general:
Great job! You met a girl out and started up a conversation. I'm not being sarcastic. There are many guys who post here about 10 times and then never come back. They don't leave their house. You're out there practicing your skills. You're analyzing your game so you do things better the next time. Keep it up and it will become second nature.
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Postby Guest » Fri Jun 20, 2008 4:56 pm

Yeah, I definately thought about the creep comment. Good call. Way to keep it positive too. I even made a joke about me being a failure when I said who knows, maybe I will be in a few of your classes some day. Thanks for everything...
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Postby Guest » Fri Jun 20, 2008 5:21 pm

There was a lot of positive there. You called her a dork; it's fun to be playful. You changed the subject in a smooth way when she brought up her friend dying; you don't want to talk about death. You used the word "sexy" which is great; have you read anything by Juggler?

She remembered you, so you must have made a good impression in person. You wanted to take a risk, and you did. Awesome job.
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Postby Guest » Fri Jun 20, 2008 6:45 pm

Thanks bro. No, I have not read anything by Juggler. BTW, I have seen her two or three times today and everytime she said hi to me so I dont know if it really affected her that much. I saw her at Target today with her friend who also added me to facebook that night. I joked lamely about how she was following me and she said, no you are following me. I just kind of ignored her and walked away. We both we walking up to the register to check out and she was saying to her friend I think I could fit into this (some little girl clothing). I said no you cant. Her friend said it scares me that you probably could, and I told her friend, dont let her do it! LOL. Then as she left target before me I said, see ya ladies and they said, see you tonight...
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Postby Guest » Mon Jun 23, 2008 11:06 am

Tread carefully about the whole still being married thing! Most women aren't going to think thats cool.

You don't need to wait for your wife to file for divorce, go ahead and file on her.
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