about In-Field Instruction meets

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About the infeild instructions at the first and middle of every month, the announcement post doesnt allow replys and I tried searching, so I'm making a new thread, sorry if im reposting this question.

I'm very interested in coming to one of these, or starting to come to all of them. I've never been out with a group of puas before, so that unknown does make me a bit nervous, but I can get over that. But I'm not sure if it's where I belong or not. Can someone tell me what these events are like? I dont know what to expect or who its for.

I read where someone said something like "dont expect an hour seminar, its mostly just folks getting together to sarge". How many beginners usually come? It does say 4 or 5 guys will be grouped per instructor, so the fact that there even are instructors leads me to beleive it is geared towards beginners, but I would hate to come out there and be deadweight to someone as a wing.

[zine]

dude.. stop doubting yourself so much lol. You have everything you need within yourself to make the changes needed right now in order to get any woman you want. You are never "deadweight" in anything in life. The very least you can be is a guy that wants to learn how to get better, which is respectable. There are alot of new guys at these events, and a few more experienced guys. Listen to the experienced guys and really push yourself to try new things, and you will see improvements in all your future relationships with people.

[Finesse]

Alright man. Here's the skinny.

NONE of the people that go out are mPUA's. Most are far from it. What happens is on the day game and night game meet ups everyone meets at a central location and then the organizer or someone who is a "lead" if you will breaks the groups up.... which is Mojo or someone that he has given to take the task since he cant make it.

What he does is break the groups up with 4 or 5 "beginners" and 1 or 2 "advanced beginners" or the instructors.

The instructors, are there because they have been in this for a little while, and while most arent as successful as they would like to be still have better game than those just starting out. They are meant to help break you through AA and push you into sets regardless of whether or not it sticks, its their job to make sure you dont become a wall flower.

But really, after AA the game is all about how YOU internalize this stuff and contour it to fit who you are as an individual. The insturctors also help you with some of the less obvious things, like if you hold your drink at your chest, and basic body language technics. Again, the instructors are not mPUA's, but they help you with the basic's and help to progress your game a little farther.

I have sarged with quite a few different people on this board. HOWEVER, I only continue to sarge with the ones I mesh with. You have to find a wing and a couple different wings that when you guys get together its like fireworks.... in a totally non sexual way..

Being "dead weight" is all in your head man. remember... you ARE the party and the party goes where you go.

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I'm not really that hard on myself. I guess deadweight is a bad choice of words. But out of respect for the PUAs on here, I wouldn't want to show up looking for 'training' on a night when they weren't expecting newbs to be around. I wasn't sure if it was what I was looking for or not. But thanks for the encouragment and information. It seems like this is what i'm looking for.

And thanks for the detailed response finesse. Someone should put that in the sticky announcement thread.