LTR question

[flash07]

ok so here is the deal im currently in my first semester of college. I have been in a LTR for the last few months but at times i get bored. She is a awesome girl she just seems immature at times. I currently live in the dorms with a lofted twin bed so if i do become single bringing a girl back to "my place" doesnt really work so its nice that she has a house. I dont really know where i should go with this. i wanted to hear some of yalls opinions


thanks,
Flash

[Finesse]

I have been looking for an avenue for expressing my opinion on such a matter.

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I just got out of a 3 year relationship where, we fought all the fucking time. We fought about stupid shit like who bought the last fucking meal, and about really big things like whos car we were going to take.

So you can just fucking imagine what would happen when we fought about some that was actually fucking important in a relationship, such as why her dad is a complete fucking DICK to me when I have never done anything to his spic ass. Her mom was a fucking gossipping bitch and couldnt keep her god-damned mouth shut, whore sister was a stuck-up whore that needed to remove the corn-cob from her ass, and her brother was a little shit...... come to think of it. I liked her brother, he just got on my nerves like most younger siblings tend to do.... but he was cool damnit.

She would never take up for me when it came to her parents..... but then again it wasnt really that... that wasnt the fucking issue. The issue was her parents didnt respect her as a fucking adult and she was too ignorant to see that. They used the fact that they were paying her bills to pigeon hold her into babysitting her fucking brother to keep her from going out with me.

We did have a few good times..... like when AFTER the fight we would have fucking hot wild sex where I would get physical, and literally stick my dick in her ass. I would fuck her so hard she would cry in pain, and looking back I fucking wish I would have done that shit more. Always wear a god-damn condom.... and if you guys are fucking without a condom you better have given her a fucking fake name and number.

She was pretty, body was nice, but she was a fucking bitch..... and she was catholic..... warning sign fucking number 1. We fucked almost everytime we saw each other, most of the time without a condom, for antire year and a half. I snuck into her dorm room and stayed after curfew all night. She didnt have a bathroom in her drom room, so I resorted to pissing in the sink for the fucking 5 hours she was in class the morning after. That night she fucking took her sweet ass time getting back to. I had called her and told I had to shit so hurry back and she still took her fucking time. She was extremely selfish, fuck me.

Towards the end of the relationship its all about when I payed for the last dinner, or took her out last. Well first off.... the bitch is taking 20% of my money for child support. Second off, she says this shit every fucking time we are together, she'll ask "When you going to take me out?" to which I would fucking respond, "Damn you need your hair and nails did too?" Fucking gold digger bitch. She wasnt putting out for a while before that, so why the fuck would I keep taking her ass out? I then asked her, "When you gonna start sucking my dick again?"

Fucking cunt. She needs to be shot. Her and her god damned family, except the brother, he can live.

We fought almost every fucking day we were together, and when we werent fighting there was so much fucking drama it was like days of our lives, as the world turns, and guiding light all rolled into one, which then led to more fighting..... and on the times where nothing was going on, we did ABSOLUTELY FUCKING NOTHING. It was boring as shit.

When I met her she was immature, well.... guess what ... shes still fucking immature. Its like this... if your at level 12 and she is at level 9, where 10 is the level in which is too immature, and you both proceed to the next levels at the same time, she will ALWAYS be to immature and it wont change.... at least it didnt in 3 years.... how long to you want to deal with immaturity???

I'd still bring her home to the twin bunk, and I would tell your rommy that if the bed starts a rockin then ask to join or get the fuck out.

Long story short I you'd better be fucking sure you want to live the rest of your life in a constant state of walking on eggshells......

Myabe Im over reacting, but Im not....Fuck this....

If you want a LTR smack yourself.... do it now.

Fuck.

[flash07]

hahaha ok finesse you have no idea how incredibly funny that post was. i mean sorry and that bitch sounds crazy but i could literally hear you ranting as your typed that

[Finesse]

thats why I wasnt going to re-read and fix things, I was literally typing that shit as it came out of my head.... I hate that cunt, and I hope she dies a miserable lonely death.

As I mention before.... you bastard... Im glad I could make you laugh.

But on a more serious note.... serious man. I'd check you manhood at the door if you are in a LTR, because the LTR is all about making that bitch happy.

[Westfall]

Feel good story of the year!

Damn I'm glad I didn't get my ex LTR pregnant. Ever so often you'll read in the paper about some guy--a seemingly normal guy that goes and kills his ex after years of child support & allimony. I don't condone such actions, but I can certainly empathize. If I had to give my ex 20% of my income, I'm almost certain I would snap.

But not all LTRs are like this. If you don't let her walk all over you, she won't. Keeping her aware that you could leave her and find someone else at anytime helps a great deal. Not fucking her unless you know there is birth control in place will prevent the child support situation.

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Actually, that's not entirely true. Say you didn't want to get a girl pregneant, and you not only used a condumn but only had oral sex with a girl?? Could you be strictly liable and have to pay 20% of your income for TWENTY years? surely not...

The exact same thing happened, and the courts decided to fuck the guy over.

State of Louisiana v. Frisard, 694 So. 2d 1032 (La. Ct. App. 1997), established a legal precedent in Louisiana stating that a man is strictly liable for his sperm if he engages in consensual sexual contact. This includes being liable for child support, even if he does not have sexual intercourse with the child's mother. The Louisiana court heard that the woman in question, a nurse's aid, apparently met the man in a hospital while he was visiting a relative. She performed oral sex on the man while he wore a condom. After the act, and unknown to the man, she inseminated herself using a syringe with semen retained from the condom. After paternity was proven, the court decided that because the man intentionally engaged in a sexual act with the woman he was in fact liable to support the child.

Mother fucker. The courts are willing to piss all over the equal protection clause and fuck over anyone who has a cock. Holy shit. Maybe I'm over-reacting. Maybe a man should have to pay for child support for 20 years if a girl gives him a blowjob then impregnates herself in an attempt to trap him in a relationship.

It's not like the courts would make the guy pay child support if he were raped.

Hermesmann v. Seyer (State ex rel. Hermesmann v. Seyer (1993)) was a precedent-setting Kansas, United States case in which Colleen Hermesmann successfully argued that a woman is entitled to sue the father of her child for child support even if conception occurred as a result of a criminal act, like statutory rape, committed by the woman. The court ruled that the state's interest in ensuring that a child receives child support outweighed its interest in potentially deterring crime.

Fuck. So a woman could RAPE me, and I would still be legally liable for child support. Why am I the only one outraged by this crap!?!?

Fun fact: A Texas man wrongly accused in 1980 of murder. After 10 years in prison, the man sued the state for wrongful imprisonment. The state responded with a bill for nearly $50,000 in child support that had not been paid while in prison.

Another fun fact: A Virginia man required to pay retroactive child support even though DNA tests proved that he could not have been the father.

I'm fucking pisssed.

Westfall

[Blue]

I'd check you manhood at the door if you are in a LTR, because the LTR is all about making that bitch happy.

stolen!

[Westfall]

I'd check you manhood at the door if you are in a LTR, because the LTR is all about making that bitch happy.

No! The LTR is all about making YOU happy. If you're not happy in the relationship, why the hell are you still in it? Look out for your own happiness by putting yourself first.

If you sacrific your happiness to make your gf/wife happy, you will be miserable, and she will lose attraction because that is a very AFC/BETA action.

Make yourself happy, and let her know you love her, but you'd leave if she didn't treat you well, and she will try hard to keep you, which will make herself more attracted, as well as happy in the relationship.

Westfall

[Finesse]

If you sacrific your happiness to make your gf/wife happy, you will be miserable, and she will lose attraction because that is a very AFC/BETA action.

Yes you will be miserable, and later in life thats what women want. They get older and want a man that is submissive so that way they can walk all over them.

Women find a strong man attractive, ,but for her survival a strong man isnt a good choice since he could potential leave her high and dry if his existence his compromised.

For instance. Lion cubs and a lion pack, has a dominant male. But in times of starvation and drought if the dominant male starts getting hungry and doesnt have food or is to weak to hunt then he will eat the one who is more defenseless, being either a lioness, or a cub.

Having a strong male is attractive but women instinctively know that, that stong male that they have for protection will damn well turn on her when his own existence is challenged.

If she's not happy she will try and make the relationship happier for her and start accusing you of things. She will tell you crap like, "Youre not like you used to be." and other shit.

An LTR IS all about MAKING HER HAPPY. Do you think she cares whether your happy or not? No. Thats why people stop fucking after they get married. Its not because the guy packed his balls up and said no more sex for you. Its because she has gotten what she wanted. She has the security now, fuck what you want.

[Finesse]

I'd check you manhood at the door if you are in a LTR, because the LTR is all about making that bitch happy.

stolen!

Haha! SHHHH

[Rhody]

Finesse, I think you're partly right. The unconscious goal of a woman is to have a LTR with a beta male and cuckold him by fucking an alpha male. She wants the genetic superiority of the alpha and the dedication of the beta. She is more likely to get pregnant by the alpha, but she is more likely to stick with the beta.

The trick for men is to be both. I believe that a man can be both.

Also, I believe when women approach the end of their reproductive life, maybe as early as their 30s, they stop finding the alpha attractive, or at least they find the beta more attractive and the alpha less attractive.