When a girl asks for your phone number....

[Finesse]

Doesn't make sense.

Doesn't make sense.

To me at least. Are you a man? Good. Now that we have established that you do indeed have a pair of testes, the goal switches to being in the lead. A girl is statistically less likely to choose a non-leading male.

The comment about her "having" to call is wrong IMO because she simply doesnt have to call. She could, but statistically its been proven they wont.

People miss the concept of leading the relationship. You want to take the relationship where you want to go, and most likely the woman will follow suit without really giving you a hard time, AS LONG as shes comfortable and feels safe. You can text or call a girl pretty much whenever you want, as long as your agenda isnt getting into her pants.

But hell who cares. To each their own. What I do that gets me laid may not be what gets you laid. But like I said, to me, it doesnt make any sense.

[Atlas]

Point well taken. I guess it's more situationally based for me. Maybe I should be taking command of the phone calling situation.

[Finesse]

With the phone thing I have found that the faster you can get an on going joke going on the phone the better off youll be in the long run.

For instance, with one of my waitresses that I'd potentially talk to, she calle me daddy everytime she see's me because the first time we met I told her "My name is Finesse, but you can call me daddy." So she does.

Another one that im talking to on the phone alot, I always ask her what type of panties she has on and then I pretend to get turned on.

Get an on going joke and youll be fine with phone game since the phone is all about establishing rapport.

[Welsh_Dragon]

Her #closing you is just an IOI. A big one but just an IOI. Take it for what it is. Now you know where she wants (wanted in this case) to go.

To be honest he should have picked that up way sooner anyway (like for example when he kissed her on a previous night).

Tiesto: When she calls you that means "Hello please fuck me". I think that is what you were trying to say.

[Check_Mate]

When she calls you that means "Hello please fuck me".

I like that quote.
I'm gonna ad that one to my books
I got a similar situation where some girl asked for my number and i gave it to her not really expecting her to call. This pretty much sums it up when [if] they do call.

[Bull Run]

So Im gaming her a bit, and then try to number close so we can go our separate ways.. She says.. well just give me your number...

If a hot girl attempts to number close you just give her your phone and let her put it in. It is a massive IOI from girls. If you really must neg (Why? This is miscalibration) just act nonchalonte about the whole thing. Hand the phone to her and go back to your pool shot and don't pay attention to what she is doing. That would be DHV. I personally would reward her for the #close with IOI and kino. She was clearly interested.

This was the way to do it. Just hand off your phone and let her do the work. This ensures that you actually do get her number. Women are more likely to flake when they ask for your number. When a woman asks for your number what she really means is that she wants you to have their number. Comply in a very casual way by giving her your phone to have her put her number in, this also puts the next contact back in your control.

[Solace]

Wow, that was a display of sorts. First mistake was bein caught checkin her out. Girls notice u lookin out of the tiniest corner of their eye so if she faced you head on then she caught you lookin way too much.
Second, you didnt approach, and third you dissonated ur puadom by telling your self that you werent there to do approaches anyway.
Dont hang out with a guy who uses your weakness to try and cover up his. Hang out with a wing who will FORCE you to be a man and own up.
If a girl asks me for my number i give it to her. If she doesnt call who cares and if you see her out later it only works in your favor .
"oh hey good to see you again(fluff talk) hey call my phone real quick"
Never under any circumstances retaliate or explain yourself. They KNEW you were joking, but with all the other insecurities you exhibited they wanted to test you and you failed.

I know this is harsh but those are behaviors you need to toss out quick!!! I get called an asshole all the time and the next time I see a girl its pants down. if your an "asshole" then be an asshole. dont retreat back to make them feel better. You will learn how to calibrate but these are definite signs for a need to regroup.

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[skin]

For instance, with one of my waitresses that I'd potentially talk to, she calle me daddy everytime she see's me because the first time we met I told her "My name is Finesse, but you can call me daddy." So she does.

Another one that im talking to on the phone alot, I always ask her what type of panties she has on and then I pretend to get turned on.

hahaha. like finesse said, inside jokes are ALWAYS good. they bring back a shared good emotion.

the only problem then is not mixing them all up if youre using them on multiple girls!