FR: only the tip?

[Solace]

persistance and agression have been brought to the fore-front of my game in the past week due to sexual frustration. After I typed yesterdays FR i called a few peoplle i feel i have been neglecting and just spent time in rapport with them. Then i started to get horny and realized that i didn't attain near enough numbers last week to satisfy my hunger. I laid in my bed at 5:00 on a sunday afternoon mouth agape and bored as FUCK. Then I remembered a face. Along with the memory of the face i remembered the words of my boss, " If she doesnt have a phone then call her work and run some patterns on her". I had previously felt that calling an hb's work would be needy.

HB: Tiny was the hotter part of a two-set that opened me and my boss up at their store in northpark, Last Sunday. Two latinas but Tiny took the cake with an 8.5 or a firm 9. they had opened me on my style, so I just said thanks to all Tiny's compliments while my boss engaged the ug, by having her show him clothes. I immediately sat on the counter to claim my space and show my large frame. Tiny with her amazingly hot boy leaned over the counter with her cleavage exposed. She did her best to appear higher value but then she was working in retail and had opened me up. I gave her a few negs to send her mind off while I did some cold reads.

I found out that she had just moved to Dallas a month ago, so i suggested a few venues for her to check out in Addison. She said she had never been and suggested that I show her around. I tell her to write down her number, but she pauses and then tells me to write down mine instead. i was slow at reframing the turn-around and diverted my attn. elsewhere to punish her for the failure of my compliance test.

I finally decided that i would risk the gamble so i wrote my number down on a card for her, however I wrote down the number sequence all crazy like with squiggly lines leading to the next numbers. That twisted her brain a little!! haha. So me and the boss wrapped it up with the 2-set and leave while i tell my boss about what took place. He finds a way to re-frame all her statements and tells me what "wasn't being said". Basically he said shes a freak.

Well Monday night rolled around and it was Quip and I at blackfinn. Midnight rolled around and guess who I see walk in the door. yep!! HBTiny and her blonde friend. I say hey and they r on their way to get drinks so I tell them to stop over which they never did. they obviously wanted to be pursued. I lose track of quip but find him at the bar beside Tinys blonde friend. I have to plow Tiny, she was in a completely different mindset and it caught me off guard. I eventually gain some compliance so we bounce outside where we can talk.

Let me go ahead and say that this girl BORED the piss out of me!!!
When i asked her what she valued in a personality she told me what she didnt value and pretty much summed me up in a few derogatory words.
her: i don't like a guy that parties all the time, that drinks every day... etc.
Me: i actually do both of those and i thoroughly enjoy it. What do u like to do in ur free time, how do you get away?

her: well i watch sports and keep up with football stats, or i will go to the range, I workout and watch my diet.

me : why?

her: well, because I never know what my bosses will like so i just keep up with it to, blah, blah blah blah blah.....

me; So you live your life to meet other peoples expectations? Well, thats cool i guess but it seems like wasted energy, I prefer my time learning how to do different things that i like. You could spend more time learning about rapport and how to develop it rather than living in someones footsteps.

at this point shes on the edge of her seat leaning in! this far contrasts her BL a moment ago when i really thought she had no soul. the night ends moments later so I simply state that it was an alright night and if she wants to call me. I as not so much impressed by her as i was bored or confused.

The next day she calls me randomly but seemed a little looser and more flirty! interesting turn around.

She called me again thursday afternoon so i try to set a timebridge but she alread has plans.

this takes us back to yesterday where i layed on the bed thinking of her face and my bosses words. i got the number from 411 gave it a call and ten sentences later she was telling me to come pick her up.

This time she is a completely different person. Shes real, appears to have a soul and i realize that i am looking at the little girl inside this 24 yr old. we met my friends at Dinks for the game then i managed to isolate Tiny back to my place where we had wine, talked and i continued the kino escalation i had started at dinner. I was finally able to k-close.

Don't ask me how i did it by i got her to stay in my bed without too much of a fight. then as we lay spooning i begin the kissing and the rubbing, not moving too fast but taking my time. Pretty soon i peel off the shirt, then the shorts, and pause to rub her through her panties which she can't get enough of.
I perform the old PANTY PEEL only to have my suspicions of what i thought might just be some green, actually turned out to be the rough. There was a beaver in her panties. This only deterred me away from oral.

thats when the freak came out of her..."do you want to eat me" she asked.... i bit my lip and made her repeat herself. "thats pretty blunt" i said. "Okay, dont. Im really wet," she said.

I begin the rub down and start to touch down on the strip, no sooner than I had gotten the tip in did she squirm away and say" dont put it in, lets jus play, lets just play, lets play she said in a tiny little girl voice.

I would have persisted but the beaver threw me off and i was taken aback at how this girl was so prude one minute then the next she was jerkin me off screamin "lets play lets jus play".

One more almost! but dont worry there will be more. oh there will be many more. Stay tuned for another episode in the chronicles of Solace.



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[Bunny]

in this situation i wouldve grabbed her hips and shoved it in then said yay this is a fun game!

[Elation]

I think they call that rape... not sure though

It's called a take-away/ freezout- there's not a lot of discussion about it because usually once a guy can get a girl to that point it's not very long before he can figure out how to micro calibrate his ability to amp up her BT beyond the point of LMR

But I wouldn't know, I just studied sex and everything about it so it just makes sense to me; there are no tactics, I just know what I'm doing.

[Solace]

This girl has a catholic background so all the freezeouts i gave her last night only allowed her mind the time to find reassurance in her religious beliefs. This is the most aggravating scenario in the world. NEVER have i had a girl who i was more than just friends with not put out more than once. Im done with this. Maybe i have been putting too much effort into this....

[bigdprince]

dude.. you're doing good! If you FCLOSE too quick... sometimes you won't ever have anymore fun because of her guilt. But if you play.... COMFORT level rises... you just need to raise the comfort level and tease her until she can't take it anymore. Once she is over the brink... she will jump on your ass like a roadcone. Then you have to resell her and raise comfort level after the deed if you want some more regular FUN.

*EDIT* to say.. that effort might be more than you want.. and I'll agree I tend to find new willing targets faster than time spent cracking some chick down. Sometimes though.. that's fun.

Way to DHV with this chick would be to have a razor and some shaving cream next time and make that part of your foreplay. Haha... she will then think she was lacking.. etc..

bigDPrince

[JohnnyBravo]

Good example of LMR right there. I would've eaten it, and then stopped just short of making her come. You might could have f-closed by doing that. The idea is to get her so worked up that she has difficulty saying no. I went out with this girl once like you describe (more than once. She became my gf and we ended up dating for about 4 yrs). I spent a few hours making out with her, rubbing her pussy through her pants, making her wet, sucking on her tits, but she wouldn't go any further. This was the first date. The next weekend, we went to Shreveport, met my friend who has a private airplane, flew around for a little while, went back to the hotel, and then fucked liked rabbits the whole weekend! I have no doubt you'll eventually F-close this chick. Eater her out next time, but don't let her come.

Make her want it more than you do!


I absolutely love eating pussy. Shaven or unshaven.....It's all good stuff. If the girl has a hairy pussy and I'm worried about how it's going to smell or something, I'll usually take a shower with her and make sure she cleans the thing first.

[Archaeopteryx]

This girl has a catholic background so all the freezeouts i gave her last night only allowed her mind the time to find reassurance in her religious beliefs. This is the most aggravating scenario in the world. NEVER have i had a girl who i was more than just friends with not put out more than once. Im done with this. Maybe i have been putting too much effort into this....

Yes I've been cockblocked by Jesus numerous times. It really pisses me off. I've found that taking moral responsiblity helps a little. Ideally I think you want to find a way to frame it she can comfortablly rationalize it.

The problem you're dealing with here is cognative disidence, which is a bitch. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_dissonance

She thinks she is a good christian girl, and her actions/desires towards you conflict with the image she wants to have of herself. I think you have quite a bit of latitiude with which to work on framing this, as if she wants something emotionally, she will seek to grab on to anything that allows it.

Tell her sex with you doesn't count because you don't have a soul, or that she can make for being naughty by doing good things...

I think next time Im in this situation, I may just explain cognative disidance to the girl, and tell her she is a sexual being which is in contrast to her inturpetation of religious beliefs. "I can't tell you which side of the conflict should win out...just follow your heart".