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[eazy972]

Upon reading the Game and watching Mystery on TV, I still need help with females, for some reason i don't know what it is I can't seem to strike it rich with a hot girl this frustrates me, I feel like I am the AFC big time and can't break out the mold as much as i try, at a club i end up being the guy sippin a drink alone by the wall- i hate that and want to change and need to be apart of a crowd that will push me, cause i want to change my current position im in, someones gotta push me off the cliff so i can try to fly man this sucks, i know im not a lost cause because i work out and am well groomed but cant seem to let out that inner werewolf to get a hot chick! being at a local univ and not dating 1 girl from the school! O MY GOd, i want to change my fate from being the guy when im 30 or 40 saying maaaan i can't believe i didnt take advantage of my university dayzzz man! what should i do?

[Twitchy]

Save up your money and take a bootcamp. Sometimes having someone looking over your shoulder and pushing you is just the kick in the ass you need

[NobodyUKnow]

Aside from Twitchy's good advice, grow some hair on your nuts, suck it up and go talk to people. Talk to everyone you see. If you actually do this, and some point you'll find yourself in a talkative state.

Approching anyone is fun, not a chore.
Banter and repartee flow easily.
Women become attracted to your easy nature and natural confidence.

Once you find this state, STOP for a minute or two and memorize how you feel. Internalize it. Memory peg it (google the concept of memory pegs). This will make it easier to get into next time.

Anyway, all that is great and cool... but if you don't actually do it... you WILL be that 40 y.o. going "i can't believe I fucked up like that"