Shes not a stranger...

[flare]

I was just wondering...

If you know already the person you are picking up, is it different game then when you dont?

becuase you wont need openers... lol or phone number closes becuase you have the number already...

thanks alot

[Twitchy]

This is the best possible situation for pick up, in my opinion, especially if she doesn't know you well enough to already have you in the friends zone.

If you already know someone, you don't have to worry about openers, being the "random guy", or any of the other tough stuff that a cold pick up requires.

The best situation for me is if I have only met them once or twice. They know who I am so I am not the scary unknown but they don't know much about me to have already created a strong impression of me.

Gaming in this context consists of building attraction, push pull and lots of comfort. Flirt, tease, tell her about some DHV stories in your life, tell her she is a dork and you could never take her home to mama, and kino her.

One thing that isn't stressed enough in the community, IMO, is just being social. There is only focus on just the set or sets you are working for the night.

I don't know how many times my success came from the 2nd or 3rd time I met someone. It is much easier once you are not the scary unknown.

I use this to my advantage when out sarging. Instead of jumping out of the set, unless I am running short sets which is one of my favorite strategies, I will just stay in and build comfort - even if I don't feel the attraction generating like I want.

Then, the next time I run into them, they know me. Dallas nightlife is pretty small afterall. You will run into the same people over and over. So when I run into them again, they get an enthusiastic hug and big smiles, I know enough about them now to start conversation immediately instead of having it be 90/10 communication and I am not some scary stranger.

The only problem I have when you know someone is when you know them too well. If you have been friends for years, you probably have an uphill battle. She most likely has you in the friends zone and you will have to fight out of it with attraction, sexual talk and flirting.