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Postby greenboy » Tue Aug 14, 2007 12:49 pm

so what are the general rules when it comes to dealing with birds who have boyfriends?(anything that relates to college girls with boyfriends on campuss would be a bonus).cheers guys!
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Postby 101998 » Tue Aug 14, 2007 4:37 pm

Just getting better game in general takes care of that problem. Unless the chick is with someone super amazing (sooooo rare) just coming in with a strong identity is all you need. I have noticed that chicks I talk to bring up having a boyfriend to make sure I won’t judge them for “cheating” more than anything else. If you are looking for responses to an objection, I’d just ignore the comment or jump into a story. Something like this:

HB:<Boyfriend>
You: So I was out with a friend of mine the other day and she was saying how her boyfriend …. <whatever>

Like I said though, getting better game in general and building a stronger identity will generate more attraction/emotional interest and then the issue will never come up.
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Postby Scoundrel » Tue Aug 14, 2007 7:08 pm

Damn him with false praise.

Talk about his good qualities and make light of his bad ones.

Example:

Bill? You're going out with Bill? Wow, he's a really nice guy! And he comes from such a good family. So what if he cheated on his last girlfriend. I'm sure it'll be different with you.
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Postby holyskeleton » Tue Aug 14, 2007 7:31 pm

make him the nicest guy in the world... or wussy...

hell i donno im supposed to be learning in this thread lol.
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Postby Mojo » Tue Aug 14, 2007 7:51 pm

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Postby TheAwakened » Wed Aug 15, 2007 8:32 pm

Or you could do like Westfall and get her to kiss you right in front of him...and then get punched in the face.
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Postby NobodyUKnow » Thu Aug 16, 2007 2:36 am

TheAwakened wrote:Or you could do like Westfall and get her to kiss you right in front of him...and then get punched in the face.


Ummm... not so much.

Damn him with faint praise.
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Postby Westfall » Thu Aug 16, 2007 7:27 am

TheAwakened wrote:Or you could do like Westfall and get her to kiss you right in front of him...and then get punched in the face.


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Postby Rainman » Fri Aug 17, 2007 3:14 pm

talk about jealousy--paint him as a jealous asshole.....jealous can then turn into controlling etc. most college boyfriends are jealous as hell. also raise questions about his "spotty" behavior because lets get serious in college we all had at least one night were we were too goddamn drunk to pick up the phone. you can raise doubt in her mind about what he was "actually"doing simply by telling a story about how your friend's boyfriend used to not answer his phone one night and say he was really drunk she ended up finding out that he was fucking the varsity cheerleading team
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Postby holyskeleton » Fri Aug 17, 2007 9:07 pm

so to summarize, focus on jealousy and immature behaviors, also his lack of confidence and inability to handle her and tough situations. ya?
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