laying and ex

[greenboy]

ok, so 2 years ago i was seeing this really pretty girl and i finished it with her (for unimportant reasons). i was still a virgin at the time and never got passed kissing her.i saw her recently and she told me she is seeing a guy and has been for ages.she totally opened up to me about her relationship and said how it really annoyed her that her boyfriend was so possessive.she went on and on.the thing is id really like to lay her but now i feel like iv just been an emotional tampon.can anyone think of a way to tackle this one?
cheers guys.

[holyskeleton]

if you want her to shut up then just tell her to shut up. you're finished it with her anyways.

[Welsh_Dragon]

women hate needy clingy abusive guys. Be the opposite and she will be attracted. Emotional tampon not required.

[Scoundrel]

Letting her tell you her troubles is the fast track into the friend zone.

[Welsh_Dragon]

There is no friend zone. Do not allow it. Make your intentions clear from the outset.

[NobodyUKnow]

Letting her tell you her troubles is the fast track into the friend zone.

If done like a friend, I completely agree. But I've come to conclusion that empathizing while still retaining a sexual frame is powerful stuff. We know that one of the attraction switches is being the guy that can teach her stuff. Guiding her through her troubles fits this.

If the kino is up in both directions, and there's a sexual subcom, then talking about "deep things" is awesome comfort game.

In your context, this means that you're happy to hear about her boyfriend troubles or anything else, but you have to be clear that you are going to sex her up good and be the powerful alpha that doesn't give a shit that she loves her boyfriend, while you pound her into the matress.

[greenboy]

Letting her tell you her troubles is the fast track into the friend zone.

If done like a friend, I completely agree. But I've come to conclusion that empathizing while still retaining a sexual frame is powerful stuff. We know that one of the attraction switches is being the guy that can teach her stuff. Guiding her through her troubles fits this.

If the kino is up in both directions, and there's a sexual subcom, then talking about "deep things" is awesome comfort game.

In your context, this means that you're happy to hear about her boyfriend troubles or anything else, but you have to be clear that you are going to sex her up good and be the powerful alpha that doesn't give a shit that she loves her boyfriend, while you pound her into the matress.

haha, i like it!

[TheRussian]

if you want her to shut up then just tell her to shut up. you're finished it with her anyways.

-- don't know if I agree with that, but its damn funny if you ask me.