Single Mom gaming..??? Any tips?

[Neuromancer]

Just remember, *Leave them better than you found them*.

This differs slightly from my motto of "Leave them...in the woods"

WF

I am all for smart ass comments WF but you're overdoing it a bit.

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Please try not to post unless you really have something to say.

[MagicBalls]

It only takes one person to crash a party.

[TheScientist]

I'm betting that most single moms probably tell at least one girlfriend every day that they would love for their kids to grow up with a good father, but they're perfectly willing to fuck a guy and have some fun with somebody who's just not too stupid to understand basic logistical challenges.

If you're taking the boyfriend approach then you had better be prepared for somebody other than her calling you Daddy.

[Smile]

One of my friends slept with a single mommy and later he discovered that the wart that appeared on his dick a week later was not a pimple. Luckily, it did not appear viral related and was a quick fix with antibiotics. That is not to say that this single mom will have an STD... or maybe. J/K! That really did happen but I am just messing with you. Don't listen to me.

[swing]

OK, I read the initial post and have not yet read the reply's to this post....I felt morally compelled to go straight to sending in my $.02.

Run Away!

As Fast As You Can!

Why would you want to hook up with a woman with someone else's kid? If you want a kid, go make one of your own. If you just want to get laid, then "Shoplift the Pootie" from someone that does not have a track record of letting herself get knocked up.

End of Topic!

Swing,
Keepin' it Real!

[Dr_W]

Guys I hate to say it, but as I get older I have become super cool with a girls with kids... It's biology... older women=more possiblility of kids. Of course I prefer the non-moms because of logistical issues and etc... who doesn't... but I don't run like I use to in my 20's.

Also, I didn't see anyone mention the thing I have learned.... Single moms are fast to bed...

I have found that women with kids move from comfort to seduction a lot faster because they have less time and worries about what people think. You see them one weekend, chat with on the phone a few times, and a couple of weeks later when the kid is away at dad's the mom is ready to get naked.

[Rhody]

OK, I read the initial post and have not yet read the reply's to this post....I felt morally compelled to go straight to sending in my $.02.

Run Away!

As Fast As You Can!

Why would you want to hook up with a woman with someone else's kid? If you want a kid, go make one of your own. If you just want to get laid, then "Shoplift the Pootie" from someone that does not have a track record of letting herself get knocked up.

End of Topic!

Swing,
Keepin' it Real!

It's interesting how you didn't read anybody else's posts, gave your two cents, and then declared the end of the topic.

I have a kid and I've dated women with kids. I pretty much disagree with everything you just posted. So, no, it's not the end of the topic.

Dr_W, I agree with you. Many women with kids are done having kids. They know how much work kids are, they don't want more. They've turned off their biological clocks. In my experience, they're not looking for a father for their kids either. They just want sex.

Besides, I have had a vasectomy AND I always wear a condom. I'm A-OK with hot moms.

[Vector]

I think there are two different images of "single mom" in play here and they are very different from each other.

One kind was married for several years, had kids during that time, and eventually got divorced. She is college educated, has her life together, and is doing fine on her own.

The other kind got accidentally knocked up at a young age by some guy who may or may not have even been her boyfriend at the time. She "almost" finished high school, and she can "almost" afford to move out of her parents house.

The divorced single moms are some of the most careful women. They are naturally responsible and they take great care to protect their children. They will help manage the relationship, and set expectations. She wants to fuck but she doesn't want the guy to get the wrong idea and hang around when he's not wanted. They theoretically want a man (sometimes) but they are very very picky. They are out because they want to fuck, not because they want a husband. They know it and they will even tell you.

The accidentally knocked up single moms are obviously some of the least careful women. They are usually in trouble one way or another and they want a man to help with the bills and for emotional validation. It doesn't really matter who. Their lives are a mess. They are needy in lots of ways. They scare me.

I love divorced single moms. They know what they want and they are happy to just have no-strings-attached sex.

In fact I like divorced women in general but that's another story...

[TheScientist]

Vector's distinction in the two types of single moms is right on point. We talked about it recently.

I now talk to a divorced mom regularly. She's financially set and doesn't want to be a sugar momma or need a sugar daddy. She likes more than the sex, but she verbally reaffirms expectations as often as I do.

[swing]

I agree that Vector makes a very important distinction. My post was directed to the young girl that lives in a trailer park and is looking for a way out. I did not even think about the other type of single mom.... but now that I think about it, we do know several that are exactly as stated. When they get a chance to go out and have some adult time, they are ready to party down very quickly, but are otherwise very responsible with their lives.

Unfortunately, my scope was shortsighted due to a real life situation that I went through when I was just a pup. There was a girl that I dated for a while (my first sexual partner) that tried to trap me by getting pregnant and then tried to get me to marry her. Luckily after what seemed to be a lifelong wait the DNA results came back and the child was not mine. I have never been so relieved in my life.

Swing