Seeking Aproval

[sparks]

We've had a nice discussion about alpha male characteristics, and we've had a nice mix of opinions. Let's talk about not seeking approval.

See, I'm not about acting like I don't seek approval to get some ass. I'm all about not seeking approval CONGRUETLY. The only way I know to congruently talk to a chick and not seek approval is to not be attached to her, and the only way I know to release attachment is to know about ego and to develop an abundance mentallity.

Developing an abundance mentallity:
There's something called Reverse Universe Engineering (the name is a joke). Whatever. It's all about self-respect and standards. What it boils down to is you figure out EXACTLY what you want in a girl. Make sure that your standards are really high. Now all you do is talk to chicks and find out if they qualify. If they don't, you gotta walk. No matter how hot she is...

Comments....

[TheAwakened]

The problem with having really high standards is that it goes against the abundance mentality because there are a lot fewer potential lays. I do agree that having standards helps, because it sets the frame that she needs to prove herself to you instead of vice-versa, but don't make them too high.

[MagicBalls]

I'm flexible as to the specific strengths or qualities that I might find in the process of getting to know a ho. And that's good, because there are ALOT of hoes out there. My brand new band page has 850+ hoes and counting. All girls are hoes, just some hide it better than others. So I don't put any girl up on a pedestal because she's a certain socioeconomic level, education level, intelligence level, possesses a certain talent, or posseses outstanding qualities, etc. She's a ho. End of story.

Having said that, from my personal experience I've determined that as my skills improve, the girls that I'm able to interact with get better and better. Time and time again this has proven to be the case. My social skills improve, and I become more opportunistic. I don't waste time, and if I see a better target in the room than the one I'm next to, I'll move. Just when I think I found the perfect girl, that I'll never find somebody better, I do. I keep this in mind when I'm talking to a girl I like. If I flop, there will be something better around the corner. This is proven. Proven.