Recent holes in my game.

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Ok, so now Ive gotten efficient at getting numbers. Except some of the time girls flake on me. I can also get k-closes but they are rare. Plus I live far away from downtown and it makes getting SNLs not possible at all. If anyone knows how to fix this it would be helpful.

[Guest]

Scoring numbers/kiss closes are a step in the right direction.

Unfortunately there will always be flakey girls. Most girls flake because of uncertainty or low interest level. However once you gain enough experience you'll be able to predict a flake and cut ties before she has a chance to pull her shady bs.

When I'm conversing with a girl I'll pimp the conversation to generate attraction/interest. Once I feel I've done enough then I'll turn the tables so it forces her to invest in me and start qualifying herself. If she refuses then I know right there she has a high chance of flaking and her interest is low. I either need to generate more attraction or cut my losses and bolt.

Uhmmmm SNL's are possible........your buddy's mini-van works pretty good for that stuff or you go to their place. That way if you don't end up liking her she doesn't know where you live and can't come bother you. You also can get the fuck up and leave any time you want.

Another place for a SNL is New Fine Arts! :D If she's down for it you know you got a freak on your hands.

[Guest]

Another problem I figured out tonight is that I flip out if I go to a venue without a wing.

[Guest]

Read this:

[url]http://www.dallaslair.com/forum/showthread.php?t=4541[/url]

[Guest]

[QUOTE=traxxus;40919]Read this:

[url]http://www.dallaslair.com/forum/showthread.php?t=4541[/url][/QUOTE]

Thank you, I read it. When I go out by myself and try that besides in the day. My heart is beating so fast I think it might explode. I think I need to figure out why I fear being alone and deal with it first.

[Guest]

So what's different about the night time.. other than the sun is down? You fear rejection, and going out with someone else enables you to have a safety net. Dude, the worst they can do is blow you out. You need to go out on your own, deal with the stress and get through it. I should know, I have the same terrible fear from time to time, and going out alone helps me get through it.

[Guest]

[QUOTE=traxxus;40922]So what's different about the night time.. other than the sun is down? You fear rejection, and going out with someone else enables you to have a safety net. Dude, the worst they can do is blow you out. You need to go out on your own, deal with the stress and get through it. I should know, I have the same terrible fear from time to time, and going out alone helps me get through it.[/QUOTE]

Not much. I don't think its a fear of rejection because I can effortless approach any girl while i'm with my wing and during the day. I think my problem is that I fear failure. The thoughts that went through my head were that I would DLV myself which would road block my success. I plan on going in a few weeks because I have college finals coming up.

[Guest]

rejection=failure=not getting pussy.

[Guest]

[QUOTE=traxxus;40931]rejection=failure=not getting pussy.[/QUOTE]

Makes sense...Aren't you the guy who said you were going to go to Adams bootcamp? Plus my problem is that if I'm getting nowhere then it kills my motivation. Not to mention I don't have it as easy as some of the dudes here because I don't use hashed routines because I don't run mystery method because ive been caught doing so. I have no qualms with using routines but they seem to back fire on me a lot. :(

[Guest]

[QUOTE=maenad]Makes sense...Aren't you the guy who said you were going to go to Adams bootcamp?[/QUOTE]

Yes, In October Im going to go to Austin. Never been to any type of structured learning on this and I want to have that experience. I want to see if it's all a scam, or if it's legit. I'll also be the first to admit that my night game blows and that it's my fault that it blows.

XXXXXX - edited the rest out. No Point to going into Lecture mode.