Online Craziness!

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I had a few girls I was talking to on match where they initially contacted me and we got some very good convo going. We shared a few fun texts and I tried setting up dates. One of them I went out with the others I just got phone numbers and it kind of fizzled out after that. So I gave each one of them a few weeks and noticed they are all still on match.

Now I have a little attitude and don't care what they think of me. I've got nothing to loose. For some reason I am usually successful when I reach this point!

So I send an email to this one hooker saying "this is national attention whore week, you've been selected as an attention whore, good luck. Within seconds I get a response and she's opening me up wondering what happened to me. lol silly hooker trix are for kids.

I had a second girl that I went out with and tried to set up a second date before she got flakey. So yesterday on match I saw she had "give me an excuse to get off here" for her headline. I sent her a message saying "you better go ahead and sign up for a life time membership you'll never get off here". Within seconds she shoots me a text message asking me why I don't text her instead of messaging on match. blah blah blah....I tell her I had an award to give her, it was for the 2010 Flakiest girl of the Year award and she could come over and get it. Today she is texting me asking me how my day is going. I blew that one off for good.

I told the 3rd one that she needed to know that the men worth having don't put up with silly games. She asked me why I hadn't called and I said because your actions didn't match your words and you didn't impress me enuff so I deleted your number. Thats how I roll Sunshine. So she is giving me her number again and apologizing.

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I thought what I told these girls was a little offensive! To me its comes across as being a dick. I basically just called them out on their bs and they enjoyed it??? I don't f'ing get it????? Must I spank all little girls and stick them in the time out corner? I prefer to be a gentleman and not resort to those tactics although I'm not against beating some ass when required.

I was fairly certain the physical and mental attraction was there from the start with all of these girls. But I've learned to take every thing a woman says with a grain of salt....good or bad.

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[QUOTE=UncleHOwie;38991]I thought what I told these girls was a little offensive! To me its comes across as being a dick. I basically just called them out on their bs and they enjoyed it??? I don't f'ing get it????? Must I spank all little girls and stick them in the time out corner? I prefer to be a gentleman and not resort to those tactics although I'm not against beating some ass when required.

I was fairly certain the physical and mental attraction was there from the start with all of these girls. But I've learned to taking every thing a woman says with a grain of salt....good or bad.[/QUOTE]


I hear you man. Most days I just wish I could act the way I want to towards women. I have this overwhelming desire to protect and provide for them. To whisk them around the city showing them a good time and coming up with new stuff for us to do and experience together. Then, to be rewarded handsomely with crazy sex that I push to the limits AND deep rapport and intimacy...you know, the shit you'll remember on your death bed.

Alas, it's more like this:

It's 1:30am, I'm drunk, I text a girl, tell her to come over, she does, we fuck, then she leaves the next day not to be thought of or talked to until the next time I'm out and drunk and not working on any new puss.

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I've always found it to be a struggle--the cognitive dissonance created from my actions vs my internal beliefs.

I've always believed (pregame) that women were goddesses and should be treated as such. That women like the nice guys who treat them with love andthe utmost level of respect. Through game, I've learned to see Women for what they really are--a human being whose primary role is to be the other half of procreation. No different (better) than you and me.

It's unfortuante that women respond so well asshole game, because its definitely a challenge for me to say mean or offensive things to girls I like. Maybe it's my fear of loss (or her getting upset). or, it could be my mom's fault; she taught me to treat women as if they're little princesses. More than likely, a combination of both....

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[QUOTE=Prodigy;39014]It's unfortuante that women respond so well asshole game, because its definitely a challenge for me to say mean or offensive things to girls I like. Maybe it's my fear of loss (or her getting upset). or, it could be my mom's fault; she taught me to treat women as if they're little princesses. More than likely, a combination of both....[/QUOTE]


I'm not afraid of them leaving or of them getting their feelings hurt, I just don't want to say things to women, or any one else for that matter, that would purposefully hurt them. Where's the virtue in doing that?

Now, a neg or back handed compliment in jest is a totally different story. That's just being playful and engaging in witty banter.

I was watching Keys to the VIP and a guy negged (if you want to call it that) a girl by saying that she was the "worst looking girl in the place" this, of course, led to a make out in the club. To me, that's just plain sad. Saying that to a girl is straight up trashy. Then again, trash attracts trash so I suppose it works out in the end.

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Flakers drive me insane! WHat I've notice in myself is that Usually if I am REALLY looking forward to going out on a date with a new chick I just met that is ofcourse when they will flake.(and it doesnt matter how hard I hide my neediness) "ohh I am tired..." "ohh I have to do XYZ..."

ANyways that "because your actions didn't match your words.." line is perfect. I am goig to arm myself with it. Chicks deserve to made to feel like the little bitches that they are when they pull these kinda stuff.

All these dallas HBs are up on pedestals because of the hoards of AFCs worshiping them. They need to be knocked down first , reshaped and thats when they're be ready to be GF material. lol.

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I went out with a little blonde Hungarian chic a few nights ago that I met off match. Good date and good conversation. Drank wine, hit up 3 venues, and danced a bit. We both stayed sober. A the end of the date I walked her to her car had a long make out session and ran my hands all over her back beneath her clothes with out any resistance.

I figured woot wooo.....I got this one in the bag. haha yeah I know better than that, we are talking about women here.

I text her twice over the course of the next 3days and don't hear a thing back. I didn't really care either. Any more women are like a fun social experiment to me!

So I revert to my "dickish" tactics and send this:

UncleHowie: You know the least u could do is say thanks for the dancing and wine but we probably aren't a good match. Even if you lack a little class it would still be good manners Sunshine. It would make your daddy proud too!

Within seconds I get a response just as I knew I would. lol. It works everytime.

HBHungarian: Text leads to confusion, talking clears everything. I thought you are a nice guy and I felt I was being appreciative! I wish you all the goodies life can offer!

On a side note, this chic even lied to me about her age. She said she was 29 on her profile and was actually 33 in real life! The age thing isn't a big deal but the fact that she lied is. I wasn't buying her bs excuse either. These days I don't tolerate much crap from these bitches. I figure if she can lie about that, what will she lie about down the road?

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[QUOTE=Budguy68;39054]Flakers drive me insane! WHat I've notice in myself is that Usually if I am REALLY looking forward to going out on a date with a new chick I just met that is ofcourse when they will flake.(and it doesnt matter how hard I hide my neediness) "ohh I am tired..." "ohh I have to do XYZ..."

ANyways that "because your actions didn't match your words.." line is perfect. I am goig to arm myself with it. Chicks deserve to made to feel like the little bitches that they are when they pull these kinda stuff.

All these dallas HBs are up on pedestals because of the hoards of AFCs worshiping them. They need to be knocked down first , reshaped and thats when they're be ready to be GF material. lol.[/QUOTE]


Just friendly advice coming from someone that has had to rewire their thinking about certain venues and parts of town.

If you think a woman is a stuck-up, uppity bitch then you'll treat them as such and approach them with that frame. It will poison your interaction, poison your thoughts, poison your words, poison, poison, poison. Girls will almost immediately pick-up on this and will start acting the way that you believe that they will act. In other words, they will conform to your vision of them. Therefore, if you think of them as stuck-up little bitches then guess what? That's how they act towards you.

It's much better to think of women as silly, naive little girls that need a strong, powerful man to protect them, lead them, and educate them on what are and are not appropriate actions and behavior (albeit in a manner that is not demeaning or belittling). Think of them like a cute dog. They do stupid shit sometimes. They do adorable things sometimes. When they do wrong, you ignore or 'punish' them. When they do right, you reward them with your attention and affection. Simple as that man.

Some guys say Game is 100% Inner Game. I don't believe this necessarily, because you can fake it till you make it. But, it certainly helps to have the right mindset. You can create self-fulfilling prophecies and they can be positive or negative.

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[QUOTE=Bull Run;39064] In other words, they will conform to your vision of them. Therefore, if you think of them as stuck-up little bitches then guess what? That's how they act towards you.
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Thank you sir..........I will be going out tonight with a vision that women are all dirty hot porn$tars who want to drop their panties as soon as they see me! :D Expect a detailed report by Friday!

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Last month I was trying to set up a meet-up with a girl I had already F-closed on the night I met her. She was very into me at first, but then I started to pick up on a hint of flakiness. To my surprise she eventually sent me a long text that was commendably upfront, about how her ex-bf was back in the picture, and she was trying to get things going again with him. Now, I totally understood her position; she only met me once, and I took her home, but she and her boyfriend obviously have a history together. She apologized for breaking things off with me, and I was a bit taken aback by it. It really struck me as one of the most honorable and admirable things any girl had ever done since I'd joined the community. She asked me if I was mad at her, but how could I be? I could totally sympathize with her situation and genuinely wished her the best of luck.

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Fuzz- I'd keep that girls phone number. What she did is very rare.