Texting: pacing and frame.

[Guest]

Hey guys, I am curious to know how you guys handle pacing and your frame during text. I'm actually not a big fan of texting but I am interested in sharpening my skills. I hate it to be honest. It's absolutely necessary in some instances but its impossible to convey the things possible in phone interaction or better yet in person.

Some girls do not use alot of exclamation points, or very good punctuation for that matter. I generally use alot of exclamations when I text. I like to focus on positive exciting topics that give some kind of value. Something I've noticed is that a chic who has like a low energy or poor punctuation, (maybe shes tired, busy, or uninterested) eventually will pick up on the energy of my texting and begin to mirror me or follow my frame.

Some girls are too overly punctual and abuse exclamations and such. I will occasionaly pick the opposite (not negative) frame and maybe use a bit less exciting subject matter, or avoid using perfect punctuation like leaving my last sentence with no punctuation at all to see if they will mirror me or follow my frame.


And as far as pacing goes. What have you guys found to work well and what have you guys found to work poorly.

I'm doing this to see if they will gravitate towards the frame of my texts. I see it as a form of qualification. What do you guys think?
Do you guys not give a shit really, or do you guys mirror their pace and frame or what?

Thanks!

[Guest]

I personally only text, but I'm always On the phone for my business and I haaate talking on the phone in my off time. I strongly recommend reading Braddock's "the ultimate guide to phone and text game" he's a love systems instructor.

I use my text game to build comfort, humor, and attraction. I don't go for a meet right away. I set the frame that I am hilarious with my random statements that provoke responses.

initially I wait however long they wait to text me to text them. Never seem to be too needy and during peak times I take forever to respond as any high social value make would.

I never follow their frame and always set my own frame. Always bring them into your world, you are doing them a favor after all with all your alpha-ness.

once again, I STRONGLY recommend reading braddock's book.

[Guest]

Here's a post that I contributed to back in the day regarding texting.

[URL]http://www.dallaslair.com/forum/showthread.php?t=4865&highlight=tacking&page=3[/URL]

[Guest]

[QUOTE=Bull Run;38708]Here's a post that I contributed to back in the day regarding texting.

[URL]http://www.dallaslair.com/forum/showthread.php?t=4865&highlight=tacking&page=3[/URL][/QUOTE]

Very generous of you to look that up for me Sir. Perfect examples of what I'm looking for. My texts are slightly teasing and playful but more informative in nature. They work for me and get to the point but I am really struggling with building playfull comfort in all aspects of my game... I'm only 26 but an old soul.

I'm defo going to use the line "that makes me sad" to get compliance. =)