Rhody, That didnt sound harsh at all, In fact, I think your right, and I appreciate you being straight forward. I wouldn't have it any other way. I don't agree with BR's analysis considering the other factors I know. I guess it could the other guy could be alpha but knowing what I know, I don't think so.
I like your way of approaching it, and I really like how you transition to bring sexuality into it. I know she's attracted so I can bring sexuality up with a playful/cocky/funny approach while not breaking her state and recognizing her attraction.
