Sparks Not Flying

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[QUOTE=Gunslinger;37741]I guess that works...if you think superior arguing style consists of not having any reading comprehension, misinterpreting simple ideas, getting your panties in a wad over the smallest thing, and cussing like a sailor when someone disagrees with you...sure you have great arguing style.[/QUOTE]

I detect a hint of sarcasm in your post here, Gunslinger. I do.

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[QUOTE=Gunslinger;37742]We're just tired of your constant, lousy attempts at social terrorism.[/QUOTE]

Are you calling him PP? Lols hahaha!

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[QUOTE=grimm1111;37740]Prodigy, have you been drinking? Jesus Christ, he used to be such a nice young fellow.[/QUOTE]

Until I lerned the waays of the mpua g-dog Grimm -- mi balls dropped intantly!

And rhody, I apologize for hijacking your thread. I will stop now.

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What on god's green earth is social terrorism?

This is what happens when people don't know how to vent, you just bottle everything up and it boils over, and one day we're gonna read about how Gunslinger is the unibomber.

Whereas me, I'm laughing my ass off over here!

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On second thought, maybe I shouldn't pick on him. I keep this up and I might be getting that first package...

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[QUOTE=grimm1111;37747]On second thought, maybe I shouldn't pick on him. I keep this up and I might be getting that first package...[/QUOTE]

You're not picking on anyone. The problem is you think you are alpha, funny, and can intimidate me. And that's not the case at all.

A social terrorist is the same thing as a terrorist, but in social settings. If something doesn't go your way or someone disagrees with you... Then boom, you make a scene and make a big deal and put everyone through hell. Think of a baby that doesn't get the candy it wants, thus it starts crying and screaming to try and get his way.

Rhody, sorry about grimm hi jacking your thread.

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[QUOTE=Gunslinger;37748]You're not picking on anyone. The problem is you think you are alpha, funny, and can intimidate me. And that's not the case at all.

A social terrorist is the same thing as a terrorist, but in social settings. If something doesn't go your way or someone disagrees with you... Then boom, you make a scene and make a big deal and put everyone through hell. Think of a baby that doesn't get the candy it wants, thus it starts crying and screaming to try and get his way.

Rhody, sorry about grimm hi jacking your thread.[/QUOTE]

Alright man, well I'm not trying to intimidate anyone or alpha anyone or whatever you think I'm doing. Read the original post, I was obviously goofing around because I thought everyone was over it by now. I'm sorry you aren't, and that you didn't think it was funny.

I think I'll ignore you from now on.

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[QUOTE=Rhody;37727]I went out with this woman last night. She's about a 7.5, not a gorgeous 10 with a rockin' body, but I thought she was adorable. She's Thai, tiny and bubbly, just my type. We had drinks and a little food. We both admitted to being nervous, but we started to relax and have a good time. She started playing footsie under the table. We were flirting. I was teasing her. I told her I was having a good time and suggested we go play pool. She agreed.

While playing pool, whenever she finished a shot, she returned to me and leaned against me between my legs, or she would sit with her leg over mine. There was a lot of touching and kissing. Most of this was initiated by her, and I was happy to participate. Sex was inevitible. But not last night, because we both had kids at home. We talked about going for sushi tomorrow when I won't have a kid at home. Her idea, actually. It seemed like everything was aligned. All I had to do was not screw it up, right?

Nope. I got a text at 5:00 AM saying, "I really liked u but i didnt feel sparks flying like i wanted to i dont want to waste ur time im sry."

Thoughts?[/QUOTE]

... And ... back to the thread ...

There may have been an ex involved, or a number of other things. If there weren't some major external issue, then the problem is that 1) "Sex was inevitible [sic]" - you may have been too available, and when you didn't close that night, things backfired and 2) "most of this was initiated by her" which is fine, but even in those situations, you still need to LEAD.

As to what I'd do if I were in your place? I'd probably call in couple days.

Edit: just noticed she texted at 5 am. If you didn't qualify her well enough, then that's something to consider.

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the first thing that comes to mind for me is that you possibly made a dynamite first impression and then the date went well but not as fun as when you picked her up. i have this problem too bc usually im better at picking up a chick at a bar after already having a good time and then on the first date i gotta work from scratch.
Also, could you have possibly given in too much? you said she was the initiator most of the time but if you always gave in then you may not have challenged her enough. remember the cat string theory?

although a previous post could have also summed it up, thats what women do, they're flakes. its the reason why when you dove hunt you keep shooting into a flock of birds and you dont know which one you'll get.
lucky for you tho, there are about a billion more out there just like her!

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[QUOTE=Prodigy;37744]Are you calling him PP? Lols hahaha![/QUOTE]

I THOUGHT EXACTLY THE SAME THING!!!!