Switching targets in a set after F-close.....

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Any advice on how to do this? Is it even possible? I went out last Saturday and came upon a two set, where one of the girls opened me, but I ended up f-closing the other. After we finished I asked her a few questions about why she approached me, and she told me point blank that the reason we met in the first place was because her friend was "hitting on me." This obviously sent my mind reeling with possibilities.

The truth is, I was very ambivalent about choosing a target in the set, and it didn't matter to me one way or another. It could also be that even though I'm learning a lot, I maybe still run a very sloppy and haphazard game. Looking back, I ended up with the girl I got out of pure logistical reasons and convenience.

But it would be nice to bag the other girl too on a separate occasion. Now, I don't have the other girl's number, and did not have as intimate an interaction with her, so I'm not necessarily looking for advice on how to move ahead with her (though if you wanna chime in on that, feel free), but I was just wondering how often, if ever, does this happen? It seems to me that if you close one friend, it becomes impossible to get the other, because the girls wouldn't want to stab each other in the back. Anyone have any experience with this that you'd like to share?

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oooo tough one man. ive successfully done this only once and it was because i had both the girls numbers and i got to the other one before she had been told of my escapades with her friend. other than that i have tried 2 or 3 times and lost contact with my original F-close because of the attempt. even tho i knew the other chick was down to get with me before that, she would say "i dont do the friend switch thing". then again, i did fuck a girl and then later her twin because they both had a crush on me in HS and the twin wanted to prove she was better. afterward i told her "it was about the same, you're the same embryo" haha!
they were a little chubby but come on man, twins!
time is not your friend on this one, you have to move fast to accomplish your goal. hopefully, in your case they dont discuss each others' sex lives. but this is not very likely :(

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[QUOTE=Fuzz;37512]Now, I don't have the other girl's number, and did not have as intimate an interaction with her, so I'm not necessarily looking for advice on how to move ahead with her (though if you wanna chime in on that, feel free), but I was just wondering how often, if ever, does this happen? It seems to me that if you close one friend, it becomes impossible to get the other, because the girls wouldn't want to stab each other in the back. Anyone have any experience with this that you'd like to share?[/QUOTE]


This type of thing happens all the time. The girls will talk with each other and if one of them fucked you and the other is attracted, then her interest will only be piqued. The biggest variables here are how tight their friendship is AND what the fuck close represented.

For example, I once SNL'd a chick the night before I was supposed to go out on a date with her friend. Now, I had no idea they were friends or that they even knew each other. But, I had built enough attraction and comfort with the second girl that the SNL didn't matter in the least. This basically how the ensuing conversation went down:

HB Other: I heard you met my friend last night...
Bull Run: I met someone last night, didn't know she was your friend though...
HB Other: Are you seriously interested in her?
Bull Run: I have ADD, I'm never all that interested in anyone...
HB Other: Ok, well if you want to see me you can't see her.
Bull Run: Respect. So, what time are you coming over?

They weren't that close and it was just a one night stand so it was no big deal. The other girl came over and I fucked closed her too. She just needed to hear from me that she was more important and that she was the winner because she was going to continue getting my cock in the future while the friend was going to be left without my man milk.

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Man to be perfectly honest girls know some magic chant that absolves them of guilt. For real! Things that would absolutely destroy a male friendship or devestate a man with guilt or betrayal do not affect women the same way. Things like... I don't know fucking the guy your best friend likes, or trying to hook up with your ex's best friend. BR is right, these things happen all the time. If they didn't Jerry Springer never would have had his own TV show. This is not the obstacle you think it is.

I have personally noticed that the taboo of it all adds to the attraction on her part, and not just a little. Big time. The key to everything is how portray yourself to the girl you want to hook up with. The guy that tries to shamelessly hop from friend to friend and is unapologetically sleazy about it gets nowhere. The guy tragically wishes he wasn't so into this chick because he knows it's wrong but he just can't help himself get's laid. Trust me this is one circumstance where being the good guy with a conscience(that I used to be) helped me get somewhere with a girl. Granted at the time I genuinely did not want it.