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verbal sexual escalation?
by Guest » Wed Jul 28, 2010 11:02 pm
hey, does anyone know how to verbally sexual escalate?
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by Guest » Wed Jul 28, 2010 11:12 pm
Yeah I do, and it's a good question you're asking because knowing how to do this will get you good results. Just go from low intensity gradually up to high intensity, paying attention to how she reacts.
In other words, go from indirect toward direct.
You might start with very little verbal sexuality, then add in some innuendo, then talk about sex generally, and the final stage would be where you can look her in the eye and tell her you want to fuck her brains out.
Do too little or move too slowly, and you might be a friend. Do to much, and you might be a creep. So...practice, see how much you can get away with (i.e. learn to calibrate), and you'll be a pimp in no time.
In other words, go from indirect toward direct.
You might start with very little verbal sexuality, then add in some innuendo, then talk about sex generally, and the final stage would be where you can look her in the eye and tell her you want to fuck her brains out.
Do too little or move too slowly, and you might be a friend. Do to much, and you might be a creep. So...practice, see how much you can get away with (i.e. learn to calibrate), and you'll be a pimp in no time.
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by Guest » Thu Jul 29, 2010 9:57 am
I just remembered an indirect sexual escalation I did via text like a year ago. I don't have the txt log any longer, but I started out referring to sex as "band practice" and went from there. Took it from,
"We should start a band together."
" LOL I don't play any instrument."
"That's why we practice. A lot. You'd be surprised at what I can teach you with enough practice."
"blah blah blah."
"You have to commit to it. Practice on the bed in your room, practice in the shower, practice on the kitchen counter."
You get the idea. We ended up having band practice in the back of my car outside a bar...with her head sticking out the window. Any girl who isn't a straight up ditz will pick up what you're putting down with something like this...
"We should start a band together."
" LOL I don't play any instrument."
"That's why we practice. A lot. You'd be surprised at what I can teach you with enough practice."
"blah blah blah."
"You have to commit to it. Practice on the bed in your room, practice in the shower, practice on the kitchen counter."
You get the idea. We ended up having band practice in the back of my car outside a bar...with her head sticking out the window. Any girl who isn't a straight up ditz will pick up what you're putting down with something like this...
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by Guest » Thu Jul 29, 2010 3:58 pm
Haha Band practice!!! Thats great Smirks!!!
I remember making out with a chic on her bed. She was wearing a skirt and I rolled her on top of me. I just assumed sex so I started to unzip my pants and she was like "WHOA!! what do you think you're doing?" (last minute resistance)
Me: I think they deservice a formal introduction don't you, the sooner the better
Her: I don't usually do this this quick
Me: Might was well just get it out of the way so we can get to the important stuff
Her: I don't know...
Me: Just let me high five it REAL quick
Her: what do you mean
Me: Lets just let them High five each other real quick and see if they like each other
Her: OMG!!!
Me: just the tip just to see how it feels
Her: Just the tip ok... OMG don't stop!!!
This was SNL. we ended up having sex after extreme last minute resistance.
Take anything you can come up with and just act as if you're talking about sex. You could talk about cupcakes... or icing on a cake and be like "whats your favorite part of cupcakes/ice cream? Don't you like to lick it all the way down to the last drop, just let it fill your mouth up with its sweet sweet flavor?!!" Something stupid like that, they will know what you are talking about when you do it. Or you could say "WOW you're turning me on, haha stop it!" to a chics response about anything you ask her opinion about.
If you're in person talking to her your body language and tonality will say more than you're actual words.
I remember making out with a chic on her bed. She was wearing a skirt and I rolled her on top of me. I just assumed sex so I started to unzip my pants and she was like "WHOA!! what do you think you're doing?" (last minute resistance)
Me: I think they deservice a formal introduction don't you, the sooner the better
Her: I don't usually do this this quick
Me: Might was well just get it out of the way so we can get to the important stuff
Her: I don't know...
Me: Just let me high five it REAL quick
Her: what do you mean
Me: Lets just let them High five each other real quick and see if they like each other
Her: OMG!!!
Me: just the tip just to see how it feels
Her: Just the tip ok... OMG don't stop!!!
This was SNL. we ended up having sex after extreme last minute resistance.
Take anything you can come up with and just act as if you're talking about sex. You could talk about cupcakes... or icing on a cake and be like "whats your favorite part of cupcakes/ice cream? Don't you like to lick it all the way down to the last drop, just let it fill your mouth up with its sweet sweet flavor?!!" Something stupid like that, they will know what you are talking about when you do it. Or you could say "WOW you're turning me on, haha stop it!" to a chics response about anything you ask her opinion about.
If you're in person talking to her your body language and tonality will say more than you're actual words.
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by Guest » Thu Jul 29, 2010 5:02 pm
I like teasing them about driving cars.
"I bet you know how to drive a stick shift."
"Yeah you'd probably be killer at backing it up though."
"My stick is tricky though... really now that I think about it... each one's a bit different. it's best just to play with it until you get to the point you're comfortable feeling it out."
I forgot my favorite..."You ever parallel parked? It's not that hard, we'll have to practice some time."
"I bet you know how to drive a stick shift."
"Yeah you'd probably be killer at backing it up though."
"My stick is tricky though... really now that I think about it... each one's a bit different. it's best just to play with it until you get to the point you're comfortable feeling it out."
I forgot my favorite..."You ever parallel parked? It's not that hard, we'll have to practice some time."
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by Guest » Fri Jul 30, 2010 10:47 am
[QUOTE=maenad;36936]yeah i used to use sex jokes but they really dont hit home like they used to.[/QUOTE]
This all depends on the kind of Game you run.
If you run a high energy, cocky/funny kind of Game, then all you need to do is drop in some sexual innuendos, accusations that they're trying to seduce you, and dirty jokes. Sexual escalation through your words should be sutble. Smirks' example above is pretty good. Make it fun and playful and innocent, but the mere presence of sex in the conversation will always ensure that she's thinking about it.
That's the goal really. Get her thinking about sex, then get her thinking about sex with you. In theory it's simple, in practice, well that's a different story entirely.
This all depends on the kind of Game you run.
If you run a high energy, cocky/funny kind of Game, then all you need to do is drop in some sexual innuendos, accusations that they're trying to seduce you, and dirty jokes. Sexual escalation through your words should be sutble. Smirks' example above is pretty good. Make it fun and playful and innocent, but the mere presence of sex in the conversation will always ensure that she's thinking about it.
That's the goal really. Get her thinking about sex, then get her thinking about sex with you. In theory it's simple, in practice, well that's a different story entirely.
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by Guest » Fri Jul 30, 2010 11:34 am
[QUOTE=Carnal;36929]Take anything you can come up with and just act as if you're talking about sex. You could talk about cupcakes... or icing on a cake and be like "whats your favorite part of cupcakes/ice cream? Don't you like to lick it all the way down to the last drop, just let it fill your mouth up with its sweet sweet flavor?!!" Something stupid like that, they will know what you are talking about when you do it. Or you could say "WOW you're turning me on, haha stop it!" to a chics response about anything you ask her opinion about.[/QUOTE]
This is what I like to do. I describe something innocent but do it in a way that makes her think about sex. "This is a great salad. You know when you bring a bite to your mouth and there's that moment where you anticipate that something good is coming... and you push past that moment and slide it into your mouth... and there's an explosion of flavor that sends waves of pleasure throughout your body... and you just surrender to those wonderful feelings... it's the kind of thing that makes you come over and over and over again... to one conclusion... that this is a fucking fantastic salad." (pure speed seduction right there) I'm totally obvious about it, and there's always a knowing exchange because they enjoy that kind of word play.
One other thing I like to do is when talking about relationships, I say something like, "I think a lot of people wind up in relationships by default. You know, I think the worst part about that is those people don't know what it's like to have great sex. I mean, sex is always good. You can do it upside down, in a airplane bathroom, whatever, but really great sex is deeper than that. You know when you are completely in tune with someone, totally in rhythm, it's about feeling the intimacy of it, you lock in and become one, move as one entity and reach climax together and then just melt into a gasping, sweaty, exhausted heap together. It's sad that some people never get to experience that."
This is what I like to do. I describe something innocent but do it in a way that makes her think about sex. "This is a great salad. You know when you bring a bite to your mouth and there's that moment where you anticipate that something good is coming... and you push past that moment and slide it into your mouth... and there's an explosion of flavor that sends waves of pleasure throughout your body... and you just surrender to those wonderful feelings... it's the kind of thing that makes you come over and over and over again... to one conclusion... that this is a fucking fantastic salad." (pure speed seduction right there) I'm totally obvious about it, and there's always a knowing exchange because they enjoy that kind of word play.
One other thing I like to do is when talking about relationships, I say something like, "I think a lot of people wind up in relationships by default. You know, I think the worst part about that is those people don't know what it's like to have great sex. I mean, sex is always good. You can do it upside down, in a airplane bathroom, whatever, but really great sex is deeper than that. You know when you are completely in tune with someone, totally in rhythm, it's about feeling the intimacy of it, you lock in and become one, move as one entity and reach climax together and then just melt into a gasping, sweaty, exhausted heap together. It's sad that some people never get to experience that."
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