Past Minute Resistance

[Guest]

I had something interesting happen to me. I'll call this "past minute resistance" or PMR. I brought a girl home. We get in my bed. We undress each other. We eventually begin having sex. And then as she's ramping up to orgasm, she pulls away and says we have to stop.

I treated it like any other LMR, and we eventually started having sex again. I rolled over so she's on top so she would feel more like she's in control. She started moving like a porn star. She was really good. It was getting more intense, faster, wetter... then she pulled away again.

This happened one more time - three times in total - and the third time she said, "we have to save something." We just lay down together and fell asleep for a few hours, then I brought her back to her car.

This got me thinking. Has anybody else experienced PMR? Are women more protective of their orgasms, and allowing a man to orgasm, than the actual penetration? Or is this chick just weird?

[Guest]

This, in my experience, is not normal.

The first conclusion I jumped to while reading this is that there is something else going on that you're unaware of...like another man, past sexual traumatizing, etc. If she engaged in the act TWICE...then I don't think anything "normal" could be the cause.

Or maybe the sex was just not what she was comfortable with. Next time try more of a slower pace maybe?

[Guest]

[QUOTE=Rhody;36284]
This got me thinking. Has anybody else experienced PMR? Are women more protective of their orgasms, and allowing a man to orgasm, then the actual penetration? Or is this chick just weird?[/QUOTE]

This chick is just weird.

She probably just cheated on her BF or husband with you and felt guilty about having the big O. In her fucked up sadistic head of hers she thought if she didn't get off then she didn't really cheat.

[Guest]

[QUOTE=playercool;36287]This chick is just weird.

She probably just cheated on her BF or husband with you and felt guilty about having the big O. In her fucked up sadistic head of hers she thought if she didn't get off then she didn't really cheat.[/QUOTE]

This is accurate. The same thing happened to me once. The girl was cheating on her boyfriend who had just returned from Iraq.

[Guest]

I concur, she was cheating. Most women don't think sex has occured unless one or both parties have an orgasm. Obviously, I would argue against that belief.

[Guest]

There could definitely be another guy. I know she isn't married, and I doubt she has a serious boyfriend, although it's possible. I really don't know this girl very well. However, I wouldn't be surprised to learn that she's seeing another guy.

Is it possible that she is witholding orgasm the way a woman would usually withold sex? Could she be subconsciously thinking, "if we don't orgasm then he will definitely want to see me again"? I've noticed that when you have sex with a woman after the first or second date, they fear that once you have sex they'll never see you again. This could be that fear manifested in a different way.

[Guest]

[QUOTE=Rhody;36292]Is it possible that she is witholding orgasm the way a woman would usually withold sex? Could she be subconsciously thinking, "if we don't orgasm then he will definitely want to see me again"? I've noticed that when you have sex with a woman after the first or second date, they fear that once you have sex they'll never see you again. This could be that fear manifested in a different way.[/QUOTE]


I highly doubt that. Most women are thrilled to be with a man that can give her an orgasm. If she has the chance to have the big O, she's going to take it.

There's isn't a man on earth that thinks to themselves, well I didn't get her off this time, I can't wait to get another crack at it. So, I'm not sure where her thinking is coming from.

[Guest]

My ex did the same thing when I first started seeing her. She hadn't ended her relationship with her ex before seeing me and didn't want to "cheat".

There's another guy. I would have blown my load in her eye just for utilizing these fucked up girl rules on me, and she would have loved it.

[Guest]

[QUOTE=Finesse;36294]

...I would have blown my load in her eye just for utilizing these fucked up girl rules on me, and she would have loved it.[/QUOTE]

Haha, fuckin hilarious!

[Guest]

Maybe she's a squirter and didn't want to get embarassed when the flood gates opened up! :D