Is this needy? Should I still email her?

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[QUOTE=playercool;33607]That's like saying don't learn pick up. Just sit around and some hot girl will either approach you and say let's fuck or she wont. Hahhahaha

How often can I hear "I love how confident you are" "I love how you didn't ask me, you told me you were taking me out" "etc...etc" from girls to know that they like a guy who will take charge and not be a puss.

"Ummm so I was thinking you know ummm we should go out sometime. Can I have your number?" Hhahahahhahahahha Please don't ever say it that way.

"I am taking you out. *Pulls out phone* What is your number?"
100% number close ratio using that exact phrase and pulling my phone out while saying it. 100%

If you want to spice it up a little just as she begins giving you her number cut her off and say: "Annnnd Begin". It is funny and dickish...it works.


I think you need to take action on your next encounter with this girl. Otherwise you are going to end up LJBFing yourself. She is just gonna view you as some tag along puppy friend. Who the fuck wants that.

Get all the gay neediness outta your system too. I don't want to knock your confidence but I have a feeling you are going down in flames with this chick. You gotta check your current set up and change your style. This girl is a tough cookie. Prove me wrong!(I mean it with sincerity)[/QUOTE]


I concur.

PC's 100% right on here...

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[QUOTE=playercool;33607]That's like saying don't learn pick up. Just sit a
If you want to spice it up a little just as she begins giving you her number cut her off and say: "Annnnd Begin". It is funny and dickish...it works.
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Haha. Love it.

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I like your method of getting the number :-) I am working on being more dominant in all aspects (mental, verbal, physical). I ask for numbers similar to your way, but I like how yours is a little more direct.

I definitely don't want another LJBF. I agree I will have to take action soon. I'll keep you guys updated.

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Just thought I'd give an update. Hb8 blue eyes brunette didn't make it to the party. I hung out with her on Wednesday with friends and then as a group went to eat at twin peaks

I lightly flirted with the waitress. The waitress was responding well and hb noticed. I tease hb a lot an get her laughing and kino-ing. Kept it really playful. At one point, I suggest that she works at twin peaks. Shr laughs and I say in a serious tone "you're much cuter than our waitress". She seemed to take it well and smiled.

Then, did the same type of flirting I normally do. I can post what I remember later if anyone interested. Posting this from my phone so kind of annoying

a/w I've previously asked for her number twice and she said no. I'm not proud of how I tried to get her phone number next. But I would casually mention phones and technology trying to fish for hers. I say "
me: so what's the deal with you and phones?".
She explains how she hates texting and calling just to talk.
Her: you're not gonna call me just to talk, are you?
I was a bit surprised, and te best thing that came out of my mouth was
me: "what's wrong with that?"
she laughs
me: so give me your number
I start pulling out my phone. she is about to give it to me. Then the waitress steps between us interrupts us. I got unintentially cock blocked

I didn't want to ask for it again. So I let it go. Afterwards, I email her with fluff and
"I think you're awesome. Give me your number an we'll hang out"

she gave it to me. She's coming right now to see me compete in a table tennis tournament. It's like an hour drive for her

so I'm really excited cause I think she is really cool and I want to connect with her

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haha the i got to be back soon
depends on how she says it
if shes kinda bummed (may seem like she doesnt want to exactly leave yet) try to bounce isolate :)

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Kirisu: Ah good point, I never thought of it that way. I'll keep a lookout for that.


I ended up kissing her, and she kissed back. But, afterwards, she told me that she recently gotten divorced. So, I'm not sure what to do. But, I think I'll just keep escalating everytime I see her.

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[QUOTE=sooners123;33881]Kirisu: Ah good point, I never thought of it that way. I'll keep a lookout for that.


I ended up kissing her, and she kissed back. But, afterwards, she told me that she recently gotten divorced. So, I'm not sure what to do. But, I think I'll just keep escalating everytime I see her.[/QUOTE]



Divorcee's haven't had cock in a while. And, if a woman goes without the old sausage injection for an extended period of time they literally start losing their minds. No really, they do. She's probably a little guarded, which is why it's important that you lead her without being too overbearing or telegraphing that you want sex too much.