Rhody wrote:A neg has to be mostly compliment with a hint of a reason to be insecure.
Right on. Negs are not insults, not even small "funny" insults.
Over the weekend this tall blonde 9.5 was getting a little full of herself and a little bossy, and I said with a huge smile, "You're like the big sister I never had." Everything about my delivery and body language was saying, I like you, you're cool, I wish I had had a big sister like you.
Implied is that I don't think of her sexually or romantically, which is all I wanted to communicate, to knock her out of her frame.
She later gave me her number without me asking for it.
[size=75]I'M OUT OF THE HOUSE AND I'VE GOT MY GOGGLES ON! ONWARD TO SEX LOCATION!