[QUOTE=Fuzz;33063]I'm curious. How did these people find out?[/QUOTE]
Super funny story about how the LTR found out. For another time though. She has also seen the lair on my computer and snooped around.
The only other girl that even briefly mentioned anything about it saw a pic of myself and Mystery on my myspace.
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by Guest » Wed Sep 09, 2009 2:29 pm
My LTR actually signed up on this site back in November 2008 so she could spy on what we are talking about...
Never stopped me from telling it like it is, even though she's probably read a lot of shit that she would rather have not seen. And, there is the lesson for her...if you don't want to see it, don't go looking for it.
Never stopped me from telling it like it is, even though she's probably read a lot of shit that she would rather have not seen. And, there is the lesson for her...if you don't want to see it, don't go looking for it.
- Guest
by Guest » Wed Oct 07, 2009 3:36 pm
I guess it is stupid to answer your own questions or reply to your own thread so instead I'll tell a little story and let you draw your own conclusions.
It ended terribly with the girl that I was completely open and honest about pick-up with. Which is half the point I am trying to make... IT ENDED. The truth is I was really into her and felt like we connected really well. The fact that I was open and honest with her about "game" was very liberating to to me and made me feel like the cat was out of the bag and now we could have this open and honest relationship. Not the case. The truth is that it really discredited the most sincere moments of our time together. In hindsight everything was a manipulation (from her perspective) and there was this general distrust that hangs over everything. She actually did not want to have a few of our last conversations in person because she thought I was too convincing to be around and I would suck her right back in.
What is there to be learned by all of this you might ask... First of all keep in mind that manipulation and seduction are both feminine tactics that women commonly and naturally employ. These things are both new to us and against our nature. This is why it does not gage our sincerity torwards our "target" and is seperate than our actual intentions in most cases. We can draw the line that women can't. We can be empowered by the ability to push the buttons of attraction to open the door and then let trust take over. But if you let her know that you were pushing her buttons as token of trust she will in turn never really trust you because she has been using these tactics to get she wants her entire life.
The moral to the story... Keys open doors but in the end that's all they are really good for. If you are in this for right reasons your intentions will be more evident then your method.
It ended terribly with the girl that I was completely open and honest about pick-up with. Which is half the point I am trying to make... IT ENDED. The truth is I was really into her and felt like we connected really well. The fact that I was open and honest with her about "game" was very liberating to to me and made me feel like the cat was out of the bag and now we could have this open and honest relationship. Not the case. The truth is that it really discredited the most sincere moments of our time together. In hindsight everything was a manipulation (from her perspective) and there was this general distrust that hangs over everything. She actually did not want to have a few of our last conversations in person because she thought I was too convincing to be around and I would suck her right back in.
What is there to be learned by all of this you might ask... First of all keep in mind that manipulation and seduction are both feminine tactics that women commonly and naturally employ. These things are both new to us and against our nature. This is why it does not gage our sincerity torwards our "target" and is seperate than our actual intentions in most cases. We can draw the line that women can't. We can be empowered by the ability to push the buttons of attraction to open the door and then let trust take over. But if you let her know that you were pushing her buttons as token of trust she will in turn never really trust you because she has been using these tactics to get she wants her entire life.
The moral to the story... Keys open doors but in the end that's all they are really good for. If you are in this for right reasons your intentions will be more evident then your method.
- Guest
great stuff...
by Guest » Tue Nov 24, 2009 3:18 am
I was a bit skeptical about this board at first, but after reading this thread, I am really impressed with the contributions and backgrounds of everyone on this board. I see a good mix of PUAs with differing viewpoints and some experienced artists on here. I'm looking forward to getting more involved. :)
And my personal view is that I would probably never say a word about the pickup community just because it has a negative connotation by those who are not educated in social jiujitsu. Women should be happy that guys are arming themselves to give women a better experience as opposed to the mundane they typically experience.
And my personal view is that I would probably never say a word about the pickup community just because it has a negative connotation by those who are not educated in social jiujitsu. Women should be happy that guys are arming themselves to give women a better experience as opposed to the mundane they typically experience.
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by Guest » Tue Nov 24, 2009 7:07 pm
[QUOTE=budgetballer;33734]I was a bit skeptical about this board at first, but after reading this thread, I am really impressed with the contributions and backgrounds of everyone on this board. I see a good mix of PUAs with differing viewpoints and some experienced artists on here. I'm looking forward to getting more involved. :)
And my personal view is that I would probably never say a word about the pickup community just because it has a negative connotation by those who are not educated in social jiujitsu. Women should be happy that guys are arming themselves to give women a better experience as opposed to the mundane they typically experience.[/QUOTE]
social juijitsu ahaha lol <--thats going on my facebook! :p
And my personal view is that I would probably never say a word about the pickup community just because it has a negative connotation by those who are not educated in social jiujitsu. Women should be happy that guys are arming themselves to give women a better experience as opposed to the mundane they typically experience.[/QUOTE]
social juijitsu ahaha lol <--thats going on my facebook! :p
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by Guest » Sat Nov 28, 2009 11:29 am
I've addressed it as, "I hang out with a group of guys that like to meet women."
It's true, normal and expected. In fact, if you don't have a group of guys you go out with on a regular basis and do stuff with, that would set off more alarm bells. They expect you to have a few "crazy" friends :eek:
I find it super amusing that the "tactics" of the community are looked down upon by those outside of it, very hypocritical. Anyone good at anything, has a framework, and standard moves, and things called upon. Do you think Jordan tried a new approach to every shot? Tiger Woods reinvents his swing daily? Gretzky was always changing his slap shot? NO! They develop things that work with a high probability, and use them over, and over, and over again.
So called "naturals" have many tactics. Let's not be fooled here. But, having them all labeled, and into categories, they don't. It's ALL a part of getting laid. That's it. There's a community alright, and every guy anywhere seeking nookie is a member. :cool:
It's true, normal and expected. In fact, if you don't have a group of guys you go out with on a regular basis and do stuff with, that would set off more alarm bells. They expect you to have a few "crazy" friends :eek:
I find it super amusing that the "tactics" of the community are looked down upon by those outside of it, very hypocritical. Anyone good at anything, has a framework, and standard moves, and things called upon. Do you think Jordan tried a new approach to every shot? Tiger Woods reinvents his swing daily? Gretzky was always changing his slap shot? NO! They develop things that work with a high probability, and use them over, and over, and over again.
So called "naturals" have many tactics. Let's not be fooled here. But, having them all labeled, and into categories, they don't. It's ALL a part of getting laid. That's it. There's a community alright, and every guy anywhere seeking nookie is a member. :cool:
- Guest
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