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[Guest]

Ok here is the situation:

When I meet a girl, I am all excited to hang out with her because I like pussy and I like to hang out with attractive people that have them lol and when I ask them out on a "date/day2" I am excited, but as it gets closer and closer to the date I start to get less and less excited. It's like as time moves closer to the date I start to see the date more as work and less as a date. For instance, today I asked a chick out on a date for tomorrow and when I asked her I was really excited and now I am not so excited and kind of feel like cancelling it tomorrow.
My question is is this normal to feel this way? Do you think I am just getting nervous as it gets closer to D Day? lol
I don't want to feel like every single date I go on is work, I want to have fun and be excited from asking to the actual date.

[Guest]

You're addicted to the high of the initial chase. Give the dates a shot and perhaps you'll get addicted to that, too.

[Guest]

It sounds like nerves or something to me.

You are excited that you are asking the girl out.

Shouldn't you be even more excited that you are actually going to be with her and have the chance to have that pussy?

I remember the early days it was exciting to ask a girl out. You would have some adrenaline or something flowing through your body. Same with the actual date itself. Unfortunately eventually this starts to fade away after you have done it dozens of times. I think all nerves go away which is sad.

[Guest]

[i]++++I remember the early days it was exciting to ask a girl out. You would have some adrenaline or something flowing through your body. Same with the actual date itself. Unfortunately eventually this starts to fade away after you have done it dozens of times. I think all nerves go away which is sad.++++[/i]

Wow, I can totally relate. I keep trying to recreate the first time I got laid after my divorce. It was exciting and fun as hell. Now, I go out on first dates, and even though I'm doing better with the women, it's just not as exciting.

I'm trying to figure out if it's because I'm better with women now days and therefore, they're less challenging, and I only want what I can't have [b]or[/b] if it's because I'm just riding another roller coaster in another theme park but at the end of the day it's just another fucking roller coaster.

I mean, I know that sounds arrogant coming from a guy who's never laid a 9 or 10, but that's kinda the way I feel about the women in my life right now. I gotta get over my AA and find me a real hottie. That'll probably be the cure for this.