Intro / Sticking Point

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Agreed on the 'my pjs aren't coming off' comment. That just means she wasn't ready to fuck at that moment yet. Your job is to get her there -- it does not need to be said out loud. Escalate, escalate, escalate... if you get resistance, slow it down just a bit and start escalating again. When she is horny enough those pjs are coming off...

Sounds like you need to be more sexually assertive (leading) as mentioned... if a girl is dry humping me the shirt is already off or I'm already trying to take it off haha -- why weren't you? Fuck by the time I'm making out with a girl I presume we are going to fuck - you should too. By the time a girl is making out with you she has already considered whether you meet her fuck standards. Why would she be making out with a guy she wouldn't have sex with after all? No point. She may not THINK she's going to that night and you need to let her keep that belief so she doesn't feel like a slut

[Guest]

I appreciate the advice and support. At the time, I was going at it w/ just the experience I had learned from a couple of girlfriends and other encounters. I figure w/ some in-field practice, using what I've learned the last 2 weeks from reading and other sources and a lot of these hurdles will start to disappear. Though if the opportunity arises I would like to see someone who has some solid game, first hand in the field, at some point and get an idea of what is possible.

Look forward to seeing you guys in the field...

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Welcome
Follow the advice!