by Guest » Fri Dec 19, 2008 1:21 am
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BEDFORD!! What!? Sorry u guys, I live in Carrollton.. Car got an axle problem.. Airport FWY? I wish I could make it but while everyone is in Bedford, I'll chill here and work shit out..
U guys don't have to apologize and thanks for the support
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cj,
i live in arlington and drive 40 mins to addison/plano to the meet-ups. i drive 30 mins to dallas to sarge with the guys as well. alpha mo drives from denton to the events. playercool came to the bedford meet-up last month. there is no excuse as to why you shouldnt make it out. like JJE said, im sure someone would offer you a ride...to me, you make an effort for the things you want in life; i make an effort to be a part of the community, to grow and learn as a PUA.
maybe you need to sort some things out before youre head is in the right mindset to start meeting women again. its never easy to go through a break-up (not to mention the gravity of an engagment!). so by all means, do what you have to do. all i ask is that if you go on this board seeking help (which most guys are more than willing), you need to make an effort to meet the guys and an effort to become a better PUA. maybe PU is not for you, but you wont know until you come out and actually be a part of the community...
PS: please, no more of this "im out, im back in the game" bs anymore. the skills you learn can be utilized in all aspects of life and you can never really quit the game. sure you can be less active with the boards and may not sleep with a different woman every night, but what you learn still applies. i am currently dating someone right now (with a potential of it becoming a ltr), and guess what...i STILL use the skills i've learned with her and more importantly, i STILL go to the events to get even better! so either youre in or your out.