New gambit idea - sexual compliance and escalation "test"

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i've been thinking of a new gambit for sexual compliance and escalation - i just thought of it the other day and hadn't actually thought about it since then til I read solace's post on classifying women... maybe someone's done something just like this already and i haven't read about it... feel free to offer suggestions on this or try it out. I haven't really thought it all the way out yet especially the different levels of tests. If the girl is very sexual tho you will be making out by the end for sure... then again i've never tried this it could be a totally stupid gambit too ;)

basically when you've hooked the set, isolated (or think she'd be comfortable doing it in front of her friend(s)) and are up to/past the point of broaching sexual topics, push her by saying she probably couldn't handle you in bed, or she's probably not good, etc etc. When she asks why tell her you're a good judge of body language/people but you'll give her a test to tell what kind of lover she is - how good she is and what she likes. You're going to do a series of tests and there's no wrong reaction, but the test is how she reacts. Tell her as soon as you cross her line of comfort she's to stop you, but that this isn't for her sake but to tell how she does on the test. Tell her you're not going to try and kiss her, touch her lady parts, or anything like that.

Basically each test she passes the farther she'll go... and if she gets to the end of the test and hasn't stopped you it may be SNL time ;) or at the least bar/club-makeout time if nothing else


1st test is simple - proximity and basic kino. Kind of similar to the trust test... get close enough to her face to face that you are either touching bodies face to face or just about - definitely in her sphere of discomfort. Put her hands in yours with fingers interlaced at the sides. Squeeze and see if she squeezes back. Really doesn't matter if she squeezes as long as she complies, but if she squeezes that's definitely bonus points and give her a 'good' or some other reward for her compliance. Keep eye contact and watch her face/eyes for reactions of whether she's getting uncomfortable or more turned on.

If you want you can even tell her how she's doing and what each test is for... highly bullshitable... first test is just how comfortable she is with intimacy... if she fails this one she is just not very good in bed (or just extremely shy but not gonna tell her that) - if she passes the first test with flying covers, give her shit for being totally into you and how this is just a test.

Second before you let go of the hands, somewhat forcefully (not enough to hurt or anything but enough to convey you're being dominant) move both hands behind her back to the small of her back so your arms are around her and she's locked in your arms and keep maintaining eye contact. Your faces should be closer now than they were before probably just a few inches away... this is definitely going to increase the tension. But you're not going to kiss her or anything even if she's totally into you and would probably let you. That is not the point of this test. If she's resistant to this, she likes to be in control during sex... if she is totally compliant, she likes to be dominated/lead.

Now raise her hands out and over your heads. You should still have had fingers intertwined this whole time and be maintaining eye contact. Release fingers and start wrap hands around her wrists touching as lightly as you possibly can and slowly move down her arms and down her side near but not quite touching breasts, and down until the rest on her hips. Let a little space between you build as you move your hands down so there is at least 6"-1' between you by the end when your hands are on her hips. If she lets you get all the way through this, tell her she's a very sensual person and she probably likes being massaged and touched all over (duh, they pretty much all do ;) ). If she stops you the sooner she stops the less she is into physical intimacy (maybe she is or isn't, this is just what you're telling her ;) she could very well just be freaked by doing this in a bar/club lol)

So now your hands are on her hips. If she's still with you you are golden, but why not have more fun? ;) Forcefully pull her to you with the hands on her hips and lean in to her neck and breath in deeply and smell her. Let one hand go of her waist and do a hairpull to expose her neck a bit more. Lips as close as possible to the neck without kissing but she's definitely feeling you breathing on her neck right under the ear. Repeat for both sides and hold each side for about 15 seconds or so, then move so that you are back into strong eye contact with your face about an inch from hers... close enough that you could easily, and she is probably thinking you are going for the kiss..."

Optional Crazy Horny Chick Add On: If you can tell the chick is totally into it there is one other test that's good but it may be coming on strong for some, so you'd probably want to guage reaction to the others before trying... then again if she gets to the last test, she'd probably comply. Last test if she passes it's time to head back for SNL time for sure. She's probably wet as fuck by the time you're done if you're this far. One hand down to the knee, and SLOWLY up the inner thigh. Remind her again to stop you when you've gone too far because this is a test, not you trying to feel her up. But basically if she doesn't stop you you don't stop :) And the closer you get more she is comfortable with being sexual in public. If she says 'hey you touched me!' say 'I told you to stop me!' or 'I lied' (shit eating grin mandatory)

then pull back and say: "You passed." If you haven't been explaining/bs'ing her as to what these mean as you went along you can explain them if she asks... no explanation may be necessary.

if she stops the test at any point before the end, it's fodder to tease her/push with "You DEFINITELY can't handle me", etc.

having typed out this (about half of it just worked out as i was typing it) i'm not sure on the sequence of the tests... but basically you are getting her up to the point of being ready (and wanting) to make out/snl but framing it as a test, not just you wanting to make out in a bar.

i'm sure this can't be original, and i probably just wasted my time, but who cares ;) I am gonna try this tomorrow night

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ok 26 views someone has to have some feedback... totally stupid and useless, has potential, adjust this... feedback?

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This sounds like it can be accomplished less awkwardly if you do it while you are dancing with her. Plus it doesn't have to been seen to her as a test. You just do it while dancing and gauge her reaction.

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This sounds fun and could be successful if ran on the right girl. You'll need alpha girls, and in the right environment.

This would be good to run on one of our girls at Jags! Preferably one that has already got one foot on board the Fun ship.

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lol howie you read my mind ;) i'm gonna be practicing it on them hos today and tomorrow before hitting the clubs... not to pick them up but just to have a bit of practice doing it and checking responses, although a stripper response is going to be irrelevant since a good one would easily pass through all those tests without blinking an eye ;) A good one is doing some of those things to hook their guy anyway.

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I'd suspect most timid girls would be weirded out by it. Just develop some comfort before hand and see where it goes. I'd like to be sitting from a distance watching this. lol.

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Oh for sure you can't just go up to someone and run this... you would have to have already built attraction and a bit of comfort and guaged that they wouldn't totally freak doing it... but to a certain extent if they're too timid to do it that can be a disqualifier -- I tend to like mine a bit more on the sexually outgoing side ;) this isn't something you would just go up and try to run on every girl you open -- it's more something that once you have an idea she's into you and not too timid, you can use it to escalate and amp up the tension.

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This is brilliant! Me-how did a similar(gayed up) version but I could definitely milk this. My spin would be to not k-close or touch any lady parts in public, purely to amp their sexual desire! Solid stuff mate. Though girls attn spans in public usually won't allow for a full test of that length. Keep in mind that your movements will need to be slow, calibrated and sensual. Also u will need to use the "talk to the pussy, look @ the face" concept!

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Yeah the moves would be slow and sensual that's the whole point... I can see you going crazy with this solace ;) as far as attention span, depending on how into you the girl is feeling if you do it right I think you can definitely keep her attention because she is going to be thinking 'what the fuck is this guy going to do next??'

What is talk to the pussy, look @ the face?

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This is brilliant! Me-how did a similar(gayed up) version
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You've just explained Me-how's 'game' in the fewest words possible.

Anyhoo...I think this could be used in many different situations...since it's nothing but a sexual tension catalyst. I'm also afraid some guys will take this as a tool to build comfort or something silly and end up getting a knee to the crotch.