Approach Artistry

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When you fast forward 5-10 minutes though, many times the girl becomes bored, the huge set stales, or they lose initial attraction. Although this doesn't always happen, it happens with enough regularity that makes it suck a lot.

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After that long unless it is a 2 set you and your target should be in your own little world. Her friends can be standing right next to her however you and her should be having your own conversation. If it is a 2 set well you have basically no choice but to keep both entertained.

You should be closing on the high. So when you have hit the peak of the set or at least an incline number close. Then just go right back in talking with her.

Don't be afraid to eject at anytime but do so on an upbeat moment of the set. This way they are wanting more and you can easily reopen then later. Now sure they might leave before you get a chance to come talk to them again but who cares. If you are worried about a girl you will fail.

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Thanks guys. Yeah, Professor, i've been going routineless and just vibe off the situation, I considered making a routine stack but decided against it. I'm already finding that opening spontaneously and directly gets me 100x better reactions than opening with an opinion opener.

carmel, the problem comes after i've successfully opened and sometimes hooked real well. I guess you could say I run out of shit to say and do. I think part of the problem is i'm continuing to engage the entire set which sometimes is quite large. There's no way i can keep like 5 chicks entertained in a high-stimulus environment like a danceclub for too long, so like u say pc i will try to "isolate" quicker which will make it easier on me and probably get me more results.

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I've seen you in set quite a few times acuity and usually not close enough to hear what is going on, but it usually seems to me like you suffer from premature ejectuation ;) You go in with lots of energy and good body language and you get a good response from the girls pretty much every time then after a few minutes you're back out. I understand that believe me ;) I wouldn't say you need to isolate quicker I'd say you need to learn to plow when things get slow and try and win the group over. Win the friends and you'll get the girl ;) Can be hard to do this in a club environment but next time instead of ejecting try pulling'em (target or group) over to the dance floor... it'll give you a bit of time to vibe without having to engage ;)

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prof is right. When I build comfort, I'm looking for reasons why I want to associate myself with this girl.