FR: First time working club game

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FR: First time working club game

Postby Guest » Fri Nov 14, 2008 2:13 am

So, me, tristan, solace, and aquity roll up to purgatory thursday night. I was a bit nervous going in, but I opened probably about 6 sets. A couple of em went good, but then I run out of steam and I eject. I need to start staying in there. So, I think I did good for my first club game, I opened, and it felt ok, two or three weeks ago I was too afraid to open day game, so I guess its an improvement. But I feel like shit, I feel like a failure. Why? Well, on my way to the club a girl from college I have been trying to hang out with forever texts me and wants to hang out, I tell her I am going to purgatory and proceed to be a needy. I think I blew it with this chick. And tonight, tonight at purgatory everyone pulled a girl or two to the second floor hookah but me. I couldn't get em to hook. I couldn't get any to come with me to the second floor. It just makes you feel like you're never going to improve. I am scared of turning into dream (he supposedly had a few thousand approaches and like 3 lays), being an approach artist and never going any further, never being able to close. So, to wrap up what happened tonight, I blew it with a hot girl from school and got no closes from the club tonight. Let's hope I get my shit straightened out sooner rather than later. Fuck, now I'm going to bed all depressed n shit.

I guess I should start looking at the more positive aspects of things...
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Postby Guest » Fri Nov 14, 2008 3:25 am

What up Just/us. Dude you just need to chillax and be cool. You da man you just need to realize that. No reason to be hard on yourself, just be da man. It'll happen eventually -- promise ya. I didn't pull anyone to the second floor either but my main goal tonight was the dance floor and I hit that. Didn't pull anyone, but I got outside my zone and hit da dance flo... you don't go from zero to PUA in one or two nights -- it's a process, and you'll get there. As far as the girl you're gaming just be cool and she'll be back. As far as turning into dream, no way dude -- I promise you your only limitation is the limits you set on yourself. You have no realistic reason to be held back other than the shit in your head, so just get out of there and be da man. I promise you once you do you'll be rockin' it out you've got a lot of potential.

As for me, not a lot of success but I didn't try hard either... my main goal was to get outside my head and just get down and I did that. I figured out some things I need to change to have more success, and that's all you can do -- one step at a time. No one becomes the uber-pua in one night other than a straight up natural.

Be cool, promise you you'll make it :) Don't be depressed, I only dream of being in your shoes and learning the stuff you are at your age. Some of us are just starting in this game at the age of 37 and with a lot more obstacles than you got, so suck it up and do the damn thang.

PS - I'll never be afraid of hitting the dance floor again... it has always been an issue for me, even tho back in the day I used to be a b-boy (bet y'all never would have guessed that) -- but once again all in my head. I'm better than half the dudes on the floor, fo sho. Most of the shit is in your head -- once you get past it you'll have great success.

PPS - Solace you got da moves man. Inspiration, fo shizzle.
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Postby Guest » Fri Nov 14, 2008 4:43 am

I tell you what.. I have a date scheduled with this girl from work tonight.. Let's go day game after I get some sleep and we'll find out what your sticking points are.. Honestly I am a firm believer in the saying "fake it until you make it" because anything practiced gets internalized.. And yes Solace was on fire tonight... I'm looking forward to seeing his SNL report from the hottie that drug his ass out of the club (ps bro.. I hope you enjoyed the condom I spotted ya! :) some girl gave it to me on the dance floor haha).

Seriously JustUs.. I want to do some 1 on 1 with you.. I need to work on faster attraction, comfort and kiss closing (goal is within 15 minutes on average).. We can DO this!
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Postby Guest » Fri Nov 14, 2008 5:10 am

Bro, honestly jus by getting the balls up to do 6 approaches, u blew my mind. My first few months in field I was doin like 3 approaches per night. I regret not being able to watch you. Jje, ur energy seemed far greater tonight than last time. U'll do well, and just/ us, get rid of that negative vibe!!! When I would go home from the clubs back then, all I could do was replay the approaches I did and think about how I could have extended them an extra 10 seconds, and then another 10 till I could convince myself that that was what I needed to do and I did it! Bro, that girl is one girl in a sea of MANY! I'll holla at you tomorrow night
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Postby Guest » Fri Nov 14, 2008 9:02 am

So tristan when we gonna see you in purg in a bear costume working it like yo avatar? ;)

Last night was a blast... woke up a bit drunk still had to get up at 6am for work so I can fly to vegas at 5 :)

See y'all next Thursday ;)
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Postby Guest » Fri Nov 14, 2008 10:45 am

Dude you did good don't beat yourself up. That one hottie in red was great. Oh and thanks for occupying all the hot chicks while I talked to the fatties man, I appreciate it >:) Hahahaha

Oh and solace pulled?? Dude thats awesome, yeah, you were gold last nighttttt fo shizzle. fun night.
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Postby Guest » Fri Nov 14, 2008 10:55 am

Yea that dance battle with the first chick on the dance floor was great to watch ;)
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Postby Guest » Fri Nov 14, 2008 1:05 pm

Dude tristans boy caught on quick!!
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Postby Guest » Fri Nov 14, 2008 2:43 pm

just/us, my first approach in april was like this "hhhhhiiiiiiiii" lol haha. Don't worry man. It's your first night sarging.
I sarged at club only once or twice before so I suck at it. Club and bar sarging is definitely different. I assume you need to be higher energy at clubs.

I think I'm gonna start gettin back to sarging sometime soon. Last time I sarged at normal bar was when I was at uptown for grimm's going away party. After that, I only went out like 1-2 times to strip club for some strip club game.

I don't go out much definitely... but I would go out more often if people weren't allowed to smoke inside. I just can't stand smoke lol. (they should ban smoking inside just like austin!)

I do need to go out with yall & learn club game tho coz I like how club girls are much younger than bar girls. I hate how bar girls are generally older than club girls. blah! :P
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Postby Guest » Fri Nov 14, 2008 3:13 pm

Club game is easier IMO in spite of the fact I am hands down better in a bar. The dance floor is a beautiful thing. Bring the energy there, pump it up !:), then mosey on off to the bar/smoke/whatever and see the chicks literally drool over the energy seeping out of your every pore. State in club is everything. Girls will molest you all over. Stupid really.
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