The Wing Code

[Guest]

Sometimes your friend may want you to enter a set to wing, but sometimes it can do more harm than good.

Here's the code:

You: enter briefly, ignore girls, and say to your friend, "Hey, have you seen Michelle?"
Friend: says, "No, I haven't seen her."
You: say, "Hm, ok, I'm going to go find her." and [i]you begin to walk off[/i].
Friend, if he doesn't want you in set, says nothing, or says, "OK", and [i]you leave the set[/i].

Friend, if he does want you in set, will stop you, and say "Hey, wait, you should meet these people."
If it's not apparent who the target is, friend may indicate with a small neg, e.g. "She's cool, she's cool, he's cool, but her, i'm not sure."

[Guest]

nice.

[Guest]

I'm going to go ahead and post the greatest combo opener of all time because this reminds me of it. It takes 2:

You and your wing walk into the MIDDLE of a 2-set, splitting them up. Do not talk to them or even look at them. Have a mundane, made up conversation with your wing:

Hey, did you see Michelle??
Yeah, I can't believe what she is wearing!!
I know! She was totally asking for you!!

The girls will usually start laughing and open you, if they don't I usally just say "Oh, hey I didn't see you there blah blah".

[Guest]

haha nice! Here's the deal. Watch your wing in set, if he has not hooked, then do not approach! If the hook has not been reached the girls are still trying to read you and find out if your worthy, meeting your friend will only cause more dystrophy in their minds. a quick ha , k bye, will result. and you AND your wing look like an idiot..

[Guest]

It's been my observation that if you witness your friend engaged with a two-set and one of the girls is not enthralled, it's good for you to step in starting to talk to the uniterested girl so your buddy can continue to run game on the other girl. Women at bars are like a pack of zebras. When one decides to move elsewhere, they tend to follow eachother. So if one is going to break ranks and bolt, unless you are talking to a very secure girl, the target is going to follow her friend[s].

The trick is to approach the second girl as if she were my primary target. It's important to do this so she doesn't feel that you are actually winging this. Most women can tell if they are being re-directed. I have find that the un-interested might feel "ganged up on" if it appears that the guy running the set got reinforcements.


All else fails... bring a mirror and hope the shinyness can distract the other girl[s] so your buddy can make off with the target under thier nose.

[Guest]

"hey, bro you need anything from the bar?"

If it's a good time to come in " "hey, let me introduce you to...."
If not:"I'm good for now man"
"

[Guest]

I like this

A friend just walks up...If you dont introduce right off the bat, that means 'go away'. If you intro right as he walks up, end the intro with, "Hey I think her shirt came from Target, right?"

Or something like that. Tells yoru wing who the Target is, and gently negs the girl, depending on her percieved status. I for one could care less if she knitted the fucking shirt herself, but you get the point.

[Guest]

I don't put much weight in wings. If you can't open, run, and hook a set by yourself then you're in for a very humbling experience in PU.

But, if I were to write a Wing Manifesto, it would exactly what Vector wrote.