I went full circle last weekend; I've come a long way

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I was the typical, sad AFC when people on this forum finally drug me out of the house and taught me to be a man about it.

Anyway, I'm working out of town, and some people I work with decided we should all go out. I have fun now, and talk to whoever I want, say fucked up shit to people, and don't make apologies for it. We ended up going to an "upstairs lounge" with nowhere to sit, so I just worked the crowd of hooched out trash...then noticed that a few of the girls in the group were hugging up on me :) "Holy shit," I looked around the room..."I just did it, and didn't think about it." So I walked around the bar (with sharks under the dance-floor) reading body language from the multitude of girls who are remarkably disinterested in everything around them, and want a guy in charge of their lives to talk to them...so I obliged. However, two girls from my group kept showing up with a Heineken for me.

I then went bar to bar with roughly half of the group, then down to just a handful. I noticed that roughly EVERY guy in the group left but one, who remained because I was entertaining the girl he had a crush on...I was that guy 1-year ago. I haven't and won't reach PUA status, but I'm no longer on the losing end of natural selection.

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Way to go IC... from a guy with a long way to go in his journey ;)