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So BR, you say that a woman won't cheat if she respects you! So if you cheat does that mean you don't respect her?
Or are those two totally different things??

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I disagree that a woman won't cheat if she respects you BR... for the same reasons I know you cheat on girls you respect -- for some people sexual monogamy isn't tied to your feelings or respect for them... like you said you can love every one of those girls you cheated on... and to love them you have to have a certain amount of respect. But you did it anyway because it's just the way you are. A chick can be that way too... she can be into you and respect you and still cheat on you - a lot of that stuff comes from the relationships we had role modeled for us when we were younger and we repeat those patterns our whole lives, separate from how we feel toward other people as far as respect or love.

Good point that a lot of guys seem worried about being cheated on... I never give it any thought either but for different reasons: it's beyond my control. You can do everything right and still have a person cheat on you because it's who they are, not necessarily a reflection of who you are (although your actions can cause another person to lose interest). That being said I'm not going to worry about some chick cheating on me because if she's going to do it she's going to do it. The only control I have over that is how I react. On top of that, getting into the game has completed that philosophy because now I not only don't worry about it because I can't control it, I also realize there's another one just around the corner anyway... sometimes being cheated on can be a hidden blessing ;) I know i have had at least one relationship where I was just about to break up with her anyway, she told me she had cheated (just making out not sex) and so it just made it that much easier ;)

I would like to say that my philosophy is always to the curb... and theoretically it is... but I have had one in my life who actually cheated on me worse than any.. and i'd still take her back to this day - because she was that special of a match to me and that close to my ideal... and we were young blah blah blah... but you gotta be damn special to get an exception like that ;)

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So BR, you say that a woman won't cheat if she respects you! So if you cheat does that mean you don't respect her?
Or are those two totally different things??
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Totally different. Men are naturally protectors. We are the leaders. So, if a woman is with us and is willing to be under our protection then she's going to have to respect us.

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This makes me laugh.