Anyone here real good at dance floor game? Because I'm 21- my night game consists of mainly clubs. No matter what community dogma says, I really believe that dancing can convey confidence, masculinity, and sexuality. Even if it is just grinding your penis on a girl's butt.
My problem is that I don't have confidence on the dance floor. Big sticking point. I'd like to get this handled - what's the best way you suggest?
Thanks
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by Guest » Fri Oct 10, 2008 11:35 am
getting started dancing with a women is a touchy isue. you cant just go up and bend her over and start grinding away... unless your T.O. or something. i like to start with what i call a reverse grind, which consists of me turning and pop lock and dropping it on them. ive had about a 90% success rate on invitation to continue dancing with them. another thing quipster showed me is at some point push them away from you.
dont ask me why but it works. next dont be too handsy, until shes well attracted i flip between me grinding and being grinded and i slowely increase my touching.
at some point, when youre grinding them you can feel it in their body, they loosen up, ill usually put my cheek next to their ear where i could whisper into her ear, nose next to the head right behind the ear. if she lets me do that and put my hands on her stomach right above the button on her jeans, shell usually makeout with you at this point. test by kissing her neck and ear. if light is green, pass go and collect 200.
physically turn her put one if your legs between hers, let her grind you, and go forehead to forehead. stroke the face a little and kiss her.
thats the only thing i really do, if you have any questions, il be happy to answer them. quipster would be a good source for dance game outside of just being able to dance. carmel can dance, never seen him work dance game though.
dont ask me why but it works. next dont be too handsy, until shes well attracted i flip between me grinding and being grinded and i slowely increase my touching.
at some point, when youre grinding them you can feel it in their body, they loosen up, ill usually put my cheek next to their ear where i could whisper into her ear, nose next to the head right behind the ear. if she lets me do that and put my hands on her stomach right above the button on her jeans, shell usually makeout with you at this point. test by kissing her neck and ear. if light is green, pass go and collect 200.
physically turn her put one if your legs between hers, let her grind you, and go forehead to forehead. stroke the face a little and kiss her.
thats the only thing i really do, if you have any questions, il be happy to answer them. quipster would be a good source for dance game outside of just being able to dance. carmel can dance, never seen him work dance game though.
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by Guest » Fri Oct 10, 2008 12:08 pm
[quote1223658231=Acuity]
Anyone here real good at dance floor game? Because I'm 21- my night game consists of mainly clubs. No matter what community dogma says, I really believe that dancing can convey confidence, masculinity, and sexuality. Even if it is just grinding your penis on a girl's butt.
My problem is that I don't have confidence on the dance floor. Big sticking point. I'd like to get this handled - what's the best way you suggest?
Thanks
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no advice on dance floor game, since i don't have any...but wanted to say you are exactly right. You can do anything you want if you do it with confidence, regardless of community principles.
Anyone here real good at dance floor game? Because I'm 21- my night game consists of mainly clubs. No matter what community dogma says, I really believe that dancing can convey confidence, masculinity, and sexuality. Even if it is just grinding your penis on a girl's butt.
My problem is that I don't have confidence on the dance floor. Big sticking point. I'd like to get this handled - what's the best way you suggest?
Thanks
[/quote1223658231]
no advice on dance floor game, since i don't have any...but wanted to say you are exactly right. You can do anything you want if you do it with confidence, regardless of community principles.
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by Guest » Fri Oct 10, 2008 12:21 pm
Start out at a place that plays lots of hip hop or techno. That music is real easy to dance/grind to. I feared dancing but have overcome that by just forcing my self to make it happen. Girls love to dance and I've never had one tell me no so just keep that in mind. Also, look out onto the dance floor and you'll realize the majority of the people out there really aren't good dancers so that puts you on a level playing field with them. You have less to fear.
Practice on fat girls, they can't move very well anyways and you can get away with just about anything.
One more thing, I like to get right in the middle of about 3 girls that know each other and dance with all of them. Make them all wonder which one you really want. Then you can alternate who you give attention to. Next thing you'll notice is whoever wants you the most will start working harder for your attention.
Practice on fat girls, they can't move very well anyways and you can get away with just about anything.
One more thing, I like to get right in the middle of about 3 girls that know each other and dance with all of them. Make them all wonder which one you really want. Then you can alternate who you give attention to. Next thing you'll notice is whoever wants you the most will start working harder for your attention.
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by Guest » Fri Oct 10, 2008 1:04 pm
[quote1223658426=Finesse]
you cant just go up and bend her over and start grinding away... unless your T.O. or something.
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Have to disagree here.
This is how I start dancing with girls 90% of the time....and I generally have pretty good success when dancing with girls
I usually start by going up (either behind, or in front.....depending on the situation), lock-in in someway (a little hard to explain on a board...can show in person sometime if you like), then just make sure you look like you're there to have fun....and not necessarily trying to fuck her on the dancefloor.
Also, you're more likely to find a higher number of drunk girls on the dance-floor than sitting at a bar/table chatting, so its important to judge how drunk she is too.
As you might suspect, drunk girls don't give a shit, and you really don't have to be as testy with them.
As long as you don't look like you're about to rape them when you go up, and just look like you're there to have fun like everyone else....you'll be fine.
(if you've been told that you can come off as a creepy guy sometimes, then this direct of an approach might not be the right one for you)
Generally the girl will kinda look back to see what's going on...then when she sees that you're not really after anything and it looks like you're just having fun too, they generally don't mind.
Alot of times when they look back, I'll do something to show that I'm just there to have a good time. This is another concept thats hard to explain on the board...but its important to keep the appearance that I'm just dancing, not necessarily wanting to feel them up.
Of course you also have to be 100% confident to pull this off.
If there is ANY lack of confidence on your part, you probably won't get very far.
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Ok, so having explained my most frequent approach, I'm going to share my favorite little dance-floor trick.
I discovered this a while back, and it rarely fails, so I'm going to go ahead and name it The AlphaMo:
After a few seconds of dancing (usually, for me, somewhere around 10-20 if she's getting into it), I'll reach for one (or both) of their hands, interlock fingers, and lift ONE of them up over her head.
After that comes The AlphaMo -- The fastest working, most successful kino move known to man:
Take the hand that you're holding up and pull it down behind your head and onto the back of your neck; Then put your hand(s) on her waist (or around the front, on her stomach....decision made situationally) while you grind. I don't know why the neck thing works so well....but trust me, it does, and it REALLY sets a good frame to Kclose her.
I've RARELY had that one fail me, and girls LOVE it.
I don't generally go for the waist anymore, I just go right for her stomach and pull her in tight, my stomach to her back.
If that really gets her (and it almost always does), she'll usually let you know by running her fingers through your hair on the back of your head, or doing something with her hand on your neck.
After a few seconds of dancing like that, I usually spin her around and pull her in tight like before....except now she's facing me.
Start getting sexual at that point....because if you've made it that far, then you can bet she's interested.
I usually position myself so that my right leg is out a little bit so that when I pull her in, her legs are on either side of mine....and she's effectively humping my leg. I usually keep my arm around her lower back and keep her in tight on my leg.
From there, a Kclose is generally the next step.
Keep in mind, if you get into things this far with some girl on the dance floor....its a whole other ballgame to try and get her off the dancefloor and run normal game (unless she's drunk).
More times than not, a kiss close will be as far as you can get if you do what I described above.
I could go into more on how to get off the dancefloor, but I'm tired of typing.
you cant just go up and bend her over and start grinding away... unless your T.O. or something.
[/quote1223658426]
Have to disagree here.
This is how I start dancing with girls 90% of the time....and I generally have pretty good success when dancing with girls
I usually start by going up (either behind, or in front.....depending on the situation), lock-in in someway (a little hard to explain on a board...can show in person sometime if you like), then just make sure you look like you're there to have fun....and not necessarily trying to fuck her on the dancefloor.
Also, you're more likely to find a higher number of drunk girls on the dance-floor than sitting at a bar/table chatting, so its important to judge how drunk she is too.
As you might suspect, drunk girls don't give a shit, and you really don't have to be as testy with them.
As long as you don't look like you're about to rape them when you go up, and just look like you're there to have fun like everyone else....you'll be fine.
(if you've been told that you can come off as a creepy guy sometimes, then this direct of an approach might not be the right one for you)
Generally the girl will kinda look back to see what's going on...then when she sees that you're not really after anything and it looks like you're just having fun too, they generally don't mind.
Alot of times when they look back, I'll do something to show that I'm just there to have a good time. This is another concept thats hard to explain on the board...but its important to keep the appearance that I'm just dancing, not necessarily wanting to feel them up.
Of course you also have to be 100% confident to pull this off.
If there is ANY lack of confidence on your part, you probably won't get very far.
-----
Ok, so having explained my most frequent approach, I'm going to share my favorite little dance-floor trick.
I discovered this a while back, and it rarely fails, so I'm going to go ahead and name it The AlphaMo:
After a few seconds of dancing (usually, for me, somewhere around 10-20 if she's getting into it), I'll reach for one (or both) of their hands, interlock fingers, and lift ONE of them up over her head.
After that comes The AlphaMo -- The fastest working, most successful kino move known to man:
Take the hand that you're holding up and pull it down behind your head and onto the back of your neck; Then put your hand(s) on her waist (or around the front, on her stomach....decision made situationally) while you grind. I don't know why the neck thing works so well....but trust me, it does, and it REALLY sets a good frame to Kclose her.
I've RARELY had that one fail me, and girls LOVE it.
I don't generally go for the waist anymore, I just go right for her stomach and pull her in tight, my stomach to her back.
If that really gets her (and it almost always does), she'll usually let you know by running her fingers through your hair on the back of your head, or doing something with her hand on your neck.
After a few seconds of dancing like that, I usually spin her around and pull her in tight like before....except now she's facing me.
Start getting sexual at that point....because if you've made it that far, then you can bet she's interested.
I usually position myself so that my right leg is out a little bit so that when I pull her in, her legs are on either side of mine....and she's effectively humping my leg. I usually keep my arm around her lower back and keep her in tight on my leg.
From there, a Kclose is generally the next step.
Keep in mind, if you get into things this far with some girl on the dance floor....its a whole other ballgame to try and get her off the dancefloor and run normal game (unless she's drunk).
More times than not, a kiss close will be as far as you can get if you do what I described above.
I could go into more on how to get off the dancefloor, but I'm tired of typing.
- Guest
by Guest » Fri Oct 10, 2008 1:40 pm
Some real solid advice, guys. Thanks. Alpha mo I will be trying your move out... same with you Finesse. Bull run, that will not work for me :(
I guess the biggest thing to do now is just go and get blown out a bunch before getting the hang of it and getting comfortable with it as you said Justice...
I guess the biggest thing to do now is just go and get blown out a bunch before getting the hang of it and getting comfortable with it as you said Justice...
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by Guest » Fri Oct 10, 2008 1:46 pm
i wouldn't worry about getting blown out too much... most chicks want to dance and if they're not already dancing with someone else they'll dance with you unless you're creepy. it is just a matter of getting used to it i always see guys on the dance floor BARELY moving while girls grind on them like crazy. I would say the ratio of guys who can't/barely dance is almost always more than the # of guys on the dance floor who are actually good at dancing.
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by Guest » Sun Oct 12, 2008 3:36 pm
Quip has dance game?! ;) haha
quip is on target. we used to have a wing named Spike, who helped us explore dance game. That stuff is solid with 90% effectiveness. I never approach from behind jus because it it is hard wired into girls that they freak out if you do it. With our method, charge into a group of girls, and as finesse described "pop lock and dropit", or in my instance "mash the taters".... haha very similar though in my method you still maintain your masculinity and veer away from the entertainer. If you are comfortable dancing with your back away from a girl it shows that your non-needy and not out for validation. use head turns, push pulls, and silly dance moves, then isolate from the friends before getting too excited with your dancing.... Prime example was last nights endeavor, Acuity! hahaha
quip is on target. we used to have a wing named Spike, who helped us explore dance game. That stuff is solid with 90% effectiveness. I never approach from behind jus because it it is hard wired into girls that they freak out if you do it. With our method, charge into a group of girls, and as finesse described "pop lock and dropit", or in my instance "mash the taters".... haha very similar though in my method you still maintain your masculinity and veer away from the entertainer. If you are comfortable dancing with your back away from a girl it shows that your non-needy and not out for validation. use head turns, push pulls, and silly dance moves, then isolate from the friends before getting too excited with your dancing.... Prime example was last nights endeavor, Acuity! hahaha
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