Aim fun at work

[jast]

It is pretty slow at work to day so I started AIM a girl at work.


Me: Hay
Her: what's up?
Me: You ever been to Scarborough fair ?
Her: no
Me I got invited and was just looking for some one to fill me in, I don't want to be stuck out there all day if it sucks
Me: Thx anyway

Her: it's going to rain
Me: Not saterday or at lest not yet. But then again when does the weather man really know what he is doing.
Her: Sat. might be clear. You going with a girl?(x)
Me: Your not jealous all ready are you, you not going to follow me around and hide in the bush are you ?

Her: Please. It's the other way around. You are head over heels for me
Me: .... Wait do you own a furrare dealership ?
Her: Come on, I am one
Me: Sorry I don't date girl who think they are cars, but thanks for applying
Her: whatever
Me: Found there web site looks pretty cool some of the events anyway. http://www.scarboroughrenfest.com/index.html
Her: ok. have fun on your date
Me: If it happends, From what I hear outside it is raining pretty hard

Her: not that hard
Me: You still doing the bike thing ?
Her: I haven't in a while
Me: neighborhood riding getting boaring? You know you don't have to keep up with the kids don't fell bad if you can't
Her: I've been lazy. Need to start exercising again
Me: You should head out the River Legacy if you have not been. They have some good trails http://www.riverlegacy.org/riverlegacyparks.html
Her: cool. thanks
Me: Great some customer just killed his server, talk to you later and try not to get to many tickets ms furrare

I think I all ready missed this up from before so this was more just practices I wanted to work on my C+F. I was thinking of trying the whole friend thing. Does the whole having HB girls as just as friends help your game at all?

[BluesCluesPUA]

Depends on what you can do with the HBs. I think closing HBs is better for your game than having them as friends, unless you have them as pivots.

I think her assumption that you were going with a girl (and her subsequent mentioning of it) was a clear IOI ... I wouldn't have let that opportunity slip past.

[holyskeleton]

i think you sorta messed up after "Her: ok. have fun on your date". not that im able to do it, but you need something better than going back to the rain topic with a boring line.

[Rhody]

Were you really trying to ask her to go with you? You should have just asked her. You got some IOIs there. When she said "have fun on your date," you could have extended the invitation to her there. In fact, I think not asking is a DLV. You can still be C&F. Just say something like, "I thought I was being pretty transparent, but you're obviously not sharp enough to pick up on it. So I'll dispense with all this witty reparte and ask you directly. Do you want to go with me?"

One thing though. I'm not picking on anyone in particular here, but I think it's important to mention. I have met several women from online dating and they tell me they "picked" me (whatever) because of my spelling and grammar. They actually get TURNED OFF when they see a profile or email with misspellings, bad grammar, and incorrect punctuation. They get pretty emotional about it. One said something like, "what! I'm not important enough to this person to look a word up in the dictionary if he doesn't know!" Now, I've also seen women with horrible spelling and lousy grammar. It doesn't bother me personally. My ex-wife was the worst but I married her. Still, a smart girl might see it as a DLV if you don't know the difference between "there" and "their" or know how to spell "Saturday." Like I said, I'm not picking on you or anyone in particular. It's just something to think about because everything counts. I don't want you to DLV without realizing it.

[omni]

I agree with Rhody. Those misspellings definitely jumped out at me. But that's not why I posted. I have a line that might have worked when she told you to "have fun on your date."

Maybe you could have said, "I intend to. What time should I pick you up?"

....just a thought. It'd have at least been funny.

[jast]

Update

After the meet up Friday night I figured it was time to get a look update. I killed two birds with one stone I get to work on my game and get help form a HB on my look.


Me: How was the weekend girly?
her: good. u?
Me: Really good I finally got to take the bike out. Qucik question do you like shopping?
her: yes
Me: Good, I need to do some shopping and could you a female opinion you game ?
her: now?
Me: Yeah, they won’t miss us and if any one says any thing just say Tom sent me out to do BALBAL BAL. But you have to keep a straight face
her: I can't now. Give me a minute
Me: LOL you know were the parks mall is right
Me: Man your slow may grandma types faster and she is 100

her: ok, I'm going outside
Me: ok

I went out side after she had been out there for a few min and started talking to all the other coworkers. I talked to her but did not focues to much on her and after she went in I stayed outside and talked for a few more min.

Me:: You going to help? you know if you can take some time out from hiting on all the cute guys.
her: Do you want me to go shopping with you?
Me:: I was going Wednesday night for about an hour
her: I have softball Wednesday night
Me:: You play softball?
her: on the work team
Me:: ok so who sucks the worsted?
Me:: It's not you is it ?
her: I don't know. It's our first game
Me: You guys don't have practice or anything, Maybe I will come out and watch it should be entertaining. I can yell out things like Come on smash the ball and you own that pitcher. Were are all you fans going to set I want to make sure I am in the right spot ?
her: I wanted to practice, but no one wanted to I guess. I haven't played in years
Me:: Maybe if you nice when we go out shopping I can give you some pointers
her: I'm being nice by taking you shopping
Me:: You will have a great time, can you bring some of your boy toys to care the shopping bags for us?
her: boy toys? I don't date boys
her: I would get in trouble
Me:: True and I am not bailing you out. Thursday is the only other day I have free. Let’s meet up at the parks at 7:30 pm
her: ok
Me:: Give me your cell number in case something comes up
her: gives me number
Me:: (I call her cell) Ok now that you have my number we are good

[jast]

Well she changed plans on me here is how I handled it

ME: How did you do slugger?
HER: It was cancelled because the fields were wet
ME: I bet you were really upset about that
HER: Well, I wanted to play, but I didn't want to have drive home and get to bed late
ME: Works for me, I don't think you be much help if you were falling a sleep.
ME: And shopping with grouchy women is not fun, you not grouchy are you?
HER: About that, I tried to im you last night. I forgot I have plans tonite. Can we do it another day like Friday or Saturday or Sunday?
ME: you are flacking on me ouch
ME: Just kidding
HER: No, I forgot I had to this when I made plans with you. It's important or I would cancel
ME: No worries, I have some free time sunday at 4:00
HER: ok. I can do that
ME: cool, I got some training talk to you later.
HER: later

[BluesCluesPUA]

Thanks for the update.

[jast]

Meet the girl at the Mall and we started shopping. I was having a pretty good time and so was she from what I could tell. I was busting on her and she was playing along it was great. One funny thing happen she totally busted me on the ESP trick

Me: I want to do a test on you
Her: what kind of test
Me: let’s see if you have ESP I am going to put a number in my phone between 1-10 and you say the first number that pops in your mind go with your gut.
Her: 3
Me: (I put 7 in my phone) Nope your wrong I guess the ESP part of your brain is broken.
Her: What every one picks 7 that is just common sense
Me: No they don't you didn't
Her: What do you use that to impress the 20 year old girl you hit on?
Me: LOL Yeah they love me I have way better tricks for the really cute ones.

I made her drive me to my car since she parked closer. I was thinking about hitting her up for some coffee after work on Thursday. I was just going to call her after I got off and do the whole "What are you doing right now?" Or may be waiting till the weekend and seeing if I can get her to go to the park with me of a walk.

[Sage]

uhhh whats a furrare?