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So much for sarging this week.. am I crazy?
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by Guest » Sun Aug 31, 2008 4:45 pm
They have gone well so far... the one I met the first night spent the night last night. We didn't full on seal the deal but I could've gone to that point last night if I wanted to.. i'm practicing delayed gratification... as I told her last night, after you've been married for 8 years, you get used to sexual frustration ;) She's trying to resist being a slut and putting out too soon so I'm being nice and letting her have some self respect ;) So I only fingered her til she came 4 or 5 times last night. We fell asleep in each others arms which was nice. We dry humped this morning and she gave me a hand job (feel like a teenager)... she's probably gonna come back tonight to hang out and watch a movie or something... sounds like I'll be getting a bj and/or sealing the deal. She's not the hottest girl I've dated but she has the kind of personality I really like and she's puerto rican/dominican which I haven't been with before.. you know I like'm exotic. She's definitely got the fiery/passionate latina thing going on.
The second lady I went out with is actually more attractive but not quite as attractive a personality and she has a weird nervous habit of making humming noises. We were supposed to go out again this weekend but I've been focusing on getting to where I'm at with the first one so probably will get back with her later this week.
It's been a good experience so far these are the first women I've really been out/intimate with since the divorce. It's definitely been a confidence builder I'm already finding myself second guessing myself tho... I'm thinking I could easily spend a lot of time going out with these girls who aren't really my ideals... if I were out sarging in a club/bar, they probably wouldn't be the ones I'd approach...
One of my issues is letting intimacy and sex let me get too ahead of the game as far as involvement goes and I think that is getting to be the case already so I'm probably going to have to pull back a bit. Went to northpark mall today and there were SOOOO many pretty women who were my type which is making me think whether this is the best use of my time and I'm settling for less than what I really want... at the same time I'm just having a good time as well. So a bit conflicted... I'm not trying to avoid a LTR and what I'm really looking for is the kind of intimacy that provides.
While I'm 1000x more confident and internally stronger than before starting this journey, not being in shape and not a classically good looking guy also puts doubts in my head that the kind of girls that are my real targets are going to be interested. Hard to get out of that mentality. Then again to a certain extent that is just an excuse because it's not like I've made enough attempts with the kind of women I'm after to really know if that's the case.
The second lady I went out with is actually more attractive but not quite as attractive a personality and she has a weird nervous habit of making humming noises. We were supposed to go out again this weekend but I've been focusing on getting to where I'm at with the first one so probably will get back with her later this week.
It's been a good experience so far these are the first women I've really been out/intimate with since the divorce. It's definitely been a confidence builder I'm already finding myself second guessing myself tho... I'm thinking I could easily spend a lot of time going out with these girls who aren't really my ideals... if I were out sarging in a club/bar, they probably wouldn't be the ones I'd approach...
One of my issues is letting intimacy and sex let me get too ahead of the game as far as involvement goes and I think that is getting to be the case already so I'm probably going to have to pull back a bit. Went to northpark mall today and there were SOOOO many pretty women who were my type which is making me think whether this is the best use of my time and I'm settling for less than what I really want... at the same time I'm just having a good time as well. So a bit conflicted... I'm not trying to avoid a LTR and what I'm really looking for is the kind of intimacy that provides.
While I'm 1000x more confident and internally stronger than before starting this journey, not being in shape and not a classically good looking guy also puts doubts in my head that the kind of girls that are my real targets are going to be interested. Hard to get out of that mentality. Then again to a certain extent that is just an excuse because it's not like I've made enough attempts with the kind of women I'm after to really know if that's the case.
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by Guest » Tue Sep 02, 2008 9:36 am
[quote1220365659=Justice]
after you've been married for 8 years, you get used to sexual frustration ;) [/quote1220365659]
lol ;-)
Sounds good Justice! seems like you are on the right path towards getting the kind of girl you want, keep working on your entire package and you'll get what you want. I've gone through the same thing with not getting the girls I wanted and kept improving myself and eventually got it. Everybody has to start somewhere and just give it sometime.
after you've been married for 8 years, you get used to sexual frustration ;) [/quote1220365659]
lol ;-)
Sounds good Justice! seems like you are on the right path towards getting the kind of girl you want, keep working on your entire package and you'll get what you want. I've gone through the same thing with not getting the girls I wanted and kept improving myself and eventually got it. Everybody has to start somewhere and just give it sometime.
- Guest
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