Common wisdom that i don't follow:

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[quote1219286928=TopDog]Rembrandt, while i know you were joking in that last comment (which cracked me up), that actually is a great example to be honest. That would be one of those community words of wisdom. And to be honest, when i'm solo sarging i'm even more aware of my BL than normal. I will lean back on a bar, spread my arms out and hold my beer out on the side propped on the bar, and NUMEROUS times i actually have been approached by women and opened me and literally commented how confident i looked(all from body language projection) (to where now i intentionally do this). It's not so much ..."do [i]this[/i] because[i] it [/i]will get you laid", it's "do this because it will likely have a beneficial impact" on a women's perception of you...[/quote1219286928]

This is true. This fucker gets opened more than anyone I've ever seen.

BUT, Topdog, I don't think it's because you're so relaxed and confident. Sure, that's part of the equation but not the whole part.

Dude, you have a physical attribute that naturally showers you with attention.

One night I made a point to walk slightly behind you as you walked around the venue, not sure which venue, but that doesn't matter. EVERY single chick that you walked by looked at you, EVERY single one. And not EVERY single one was attracted to you, that's Superman kind of powers you know? Shit dude, even dudes stop what they're doing and look at you! BTW, when the guys said some shit about you, which they DO, I politely told them that you're my boy and asked if they had a problem...the answer? NO, of course not, no problem! I thought it was funny as shit!!

Anyway, you probably don't realize this but you are the center of attention. People STOP what they're doing and look at you. So, when you look incredibly confident, which you do (guys you wanna learn how to project confidence just talk to and watch Topdog for a few seconds). The fact that you look confident while you're under so much scrutiny subcommunicates that you're even MORE confident than you LOOK. Does that make sense brother? Hope so.

Anyway, so the your BL is only part of the equation the other part is how you react to the world. I would liken your physical stature to that of peacocking. Real peacocking, not just wearing a tie. When you draw attention to yourself from everyone it creates immense social pressure...when you react totally unfazed it serves as a notice to the world that whatever they think, say, or do makes zero difference to you, it subcommunicates that you're a confident man of value, you do what you want, when you want.

Guys, this is a great example of running with what you got. Topdog is one of the BEST PUAs in Dallas. He's got a natural gift given his phyiscal appearance, and he's learned how to work with what he's got. This is the model that all of us should follow.

Having said that, I want everyone to know that I found a porn from the 1920's...

I enjoyed it :)

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Bullrun... thanks for the words. i appreciate that. You get a reach around next time we are together. ;)

BUT...i'd like to point out. I was my same height (the 'natural' peacocking) back in high school AND college and I had absolutely NOOOO game.

My game came from a result of studying community principles, and quite frankly, busting my ass in the gym(I'm talking dragging a cooler around drinking protein shakes every 3 hours intensity for several years..) I 've hit the weights and added 70 lbs.... +- 10 lbs in good shape and bad shape. (I've actually been meaning to make a post on how my game has transformed in the past 5 weeks since i've gotten back in the gym and lost 10+ pounds.)

Point being, what i don't want to get lost is that i worked my ass off internalizing community principles to get where i'm at, both mentally AND physically. I could put my game at ZERO in an instant by simply changing my body language. Point i'm trying to make is, i don't want it to be lost on newbies the importance. My physical peacocking could be just as much of a hindrance as it is a positive( unfortunately, i see this all the time)

Anyways, i want to stress is that i LEARNED how to get to where I am now. it may look like that i have natural advantage.. it came from a lot of hard work especially inner game work, to turn that into an advantage... applying those principles and having those smaller idividual sucesses along the way are what gave me the overall confidence and why it may look like a natural advantage!

Grimm...sorry to sidetrack your thread.

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Definitely bro. Anyone that knows you can tell that you've done some work with respect to your game.

What I was saying is that you have your God given attributes and you figured out a way to accentuate them with practice, internalization, and work.

You're a fucking beast man...

A BEAST!!

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The only thing that I disagree with is the self-depricating humor. Have not done it in years and wont do it again.Never got anywhere with it. And I agree with Rembrandt,we do need to find some Swedish women.