another drunk post for your amusement... (said very cynically)

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Another beautiful post by Peter Grimm. I was hoping you would write this post. IN fact I am pretty sure I was telling you to do it while that little slut hooker from Finn was cooking me breakfast at 3:00 AM.

I was wondering what the fuck you were talking about ANTS for. I was sitting there going...WTF is Grimm talking about laughing my ass off at your texts. I too thought you were driving around in a field from those texts. Fucking classic man. Great story.

I didn't bother to read any of your responses but I will surely go back and read them after I write this. I absolutely love this post although some of the shit you said is a little bothersome. Not because it offended me or anything...but because you basically don't love your life right now. That blows donkey dick man.

I highly recommend you do ONE THING!!!!! Do not talk to your EX anymore. This is so unhealthly for you. If you would just not respond to any of her texts or calls Mentally this will help you. The only way I was able to get over my ex was to do this. If I would have had open communication with her I would have gone crazy.

I too am in search of exactly what you are(I think most people are). I have not been able to find anything close. One of the reasons is because I still have feelings for my ex. I know subconsciously this affects things. I have a feeling you might be having the same problem.

Drop the EX totally from your life(No pictures, no texts, no calls, no emails, nothing) Your mentality will improve and thus so will your results.

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I think most of us are here because of one woman.

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Rembrandt,

That's true for some. That's not the ONLY reason i'm here but that's sure a big one.

PC,

I don't know if I'd say it's beautiful, but thanks the same. Thanks for the concern but don't worry about anything being "bothersome," we all have bad days and as you know I'm more likely to vent than hold anything back which is probably like you said why you could predict that i was gonna write a post about this! :) i will probably forget my ex soon enough.

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Dude... this might not be the place for me to speak, but i had moment like that, too. I cried and grieved for 2 years for a girl. I was so fuckin AFC. I was a helpless romantic guy. I cried every night and soon it affected my life so bad. I was depressed. Even though, I was never in a relationship wtih this chick. If you hear the back story, you wouldn't even believe... so yeah... I can see how ur ex would affect ur sarging and every other aspect of ur life. Be strong, grimm.

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[quote1219845472=grimm1111]...yep the frustration isn't from the blowouts - as far as i remember every set that went down I'm the one who did the blowing out not her. i was in a "pissed at the world" mood and i really wasn't interested in talking to any of those girls. Ask Bull Run but i would bet you the reason they were talking bad about me was because i was completely detached from them, being very aloof and snooty and arrogant, and i don't even think i was looking at them while i was talking.[/quote1219845472]


Yeah, you were being a bit of a dick but who the fuck cares? I actually thought it was rather funny.

[quote1219845472=grimm1111]...bull run it's cool man i guess i did just walk in to 1/2 of the conversation and i didn't get that it was a joke because she was really frustrated with me[/quote1219845472]

Fair enough bro. She really was frustrated with you so I can understand why, in that context, it would seem like I was throwing you under the bus.

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Grimm...

I don't sarge or open sets because... I am still in love. I just don't have the heart to go screw another girl. Yeah, I know what Love is and it isn't the stuff portray by Hollywood. I need to be here to strength my FRAME. I need to be better.

As in your case, You are right... I don't know and I don't know you well enough... other than being a drunk azz driver stopped by cops and posting AFC rants.(haha JK... I like reading the real stuff). But the answer is oblivious, She wasn't ready for you or You weren't ready for her. The timing is not right. Marie could be your warning/Alert to be prepared and get yourself together for someone better... and not just a pretty face. You just want Marie because right now you can't have her. Trust me, after a few years of marriage and a couple of kids and whining and nagging... you don't want her and that's when Love comes in and test you. So do you know what Love means? Are you able to forgive her no matter what even if she don't deserve it? Are you able to let her go, because you love her and it is for her best?

Hey Good Luck.. I know the feelings... the experience doesn't get better, it just grows more intense in both directions.

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I think most of us are here because of one woman.
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DAM!!!

Well at least we have a cool title "PUA" in a LAIR.
Instead of the "NGAA", the Nice Guy AA Club.

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Listen man, I know how you feel. I helped my last girlfriend study for business school, helped her with the entire process, helped with the essays, the tests, the applications, even paid some fees for her, then she got accepted to Indiana University (for marketing and it's one of the best for that in the country), then I drove a fucking Uhaul to Bloomington and pretty much single handedly loaded and unloaded the truck. I visited her ONCE and while I was there I KNEW she had met someone else and I KNEW who he was, of course she didn't TELL me. She just led me along. Then she came to visit for Christmas. I got ONE day with her, ONE. On Christmas day, I actually left Christmas dinner with my family and drove 4 hours to Houston to surprise her and tell her how much I love her and how much I want to be with her...she said she needed time, I knew it was over. SO, I drove back to Dallas. Got home around 5AM.

I didn't talk to her for an ENTIRE fucking month, then she called me to tell me that she's in love with someone else but she still wants to be friends. I told her that I needed time to work that out...haven't spoken to her since, a year and a half later...

I feel like I taught her how to fly and she flew out of my life.

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HAHA!!! That is funny. Not just laughing at you at your expensive, but I can see myself doing all that stuff and getting the "Let's be Friends" crap.

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haha well it was on foot not in my car. i was in my car but a cop was right there so i got out and went and sat somewhere for a while. after like a long time this cop came up and was going to start something, so I booked it on foot and lost him and i think there was one more. then i hid in a field in the dark while they looked and fell asleep under a tree.
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I was in the local sportsbike club. A few years ago, all of us got into Fiddy's (50cc mini dirtbikes/ pitbikes). We would do Fiddy Runs in the day and night. Picture 35 to 40 full grown adults on mini dirtbikes going down dallas streets (N 75, I 35 near Royal Lane, White Rock Lake, etc), some doing stunts like wheelies, stoppies, burnouts, etc. Some of these guys are from Houston, San Antonio, etc.. other sportbike clubs.

There are no headlights or brake lights, just a headlamp strap to our foreheads, a backpack, and beer.

I don't know why but after the 4th or 5th Run, Dallas cops started to chasing us.... I mean chasing us down a bicycle path at a park in their squad car.
Nothing gets your heart pumping like getting lost at 3AM in the morning in an affluent Dallas neighborhood being sort after by cops.

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My story is that I grew up in church, and much was repressed in that environment. Couple that with the fact that my dad used to be a famous rock DJ, and would tell stories of the things he used to do and women he was with, but NEVER tought me anything about girls. He once said " I'll buy you a book about it before you get married." Now I love my dad, but seriously? Thats rediculous.

I messed around with girls in igh school, but still mostly kept to church morals until after high school. Didnt first sleep with a girl until I was 19. If I hadnt been such a wuss, I probably would have married my high school sweetheart. I still compare girls to her, to this day.

How I found the community was my frustration with church girls. All of the girls I've been involved with to this day, except for one, have not been "church type girls." I never understood why I had to go outside the church to find girls to be involved with, but thats the situation I found myself in. I found the community, to get over my fear of approaching, and expand my options of women. I wanted to be the guy who had a lot of beautiful women in his life always, and could meet them anywhere. Thats what I want from the community.

The issue I've been running into lately, is that lack of quality girls met in night game. In my mind there are 2 types of girls. The right now "FB" girls and the "keepers." I have yet to meet a keeper while out at night. Not once. This is why I'm scaling back on my night game these days, and focusing on getting re involved in church activities. I'm looking for a quality girl, and I will meet as many as it takes, so help me God.