quick advice on classroom sets

[Guest]

sooo i just started the semester and already my first class theres like 8-10 HB8's and of course the hottest fucking girl sits two seats next to me...im talkin HB9.5...
I am NOT anywhere NEAR where i need to be to legitimize myself as a PUA...so my AFC ass aint sayin SHIT to this HB9.5...alllll class....did i blow it for the semester for not saying anything on the first day?...or is it salvageable? if so...what are some things i can say to get her attention?...i was thinking of the following:
Make sure I get there before she does, and when she comes in and is about to take her seat...tell her"Hey, come sit right here Val(thats her name, short for Valarie i guess), I gotta run something by you real quick" as i say that...i would be gesturing to the seat next to me, when she sits down...whats a good solid short routine i can run....im thinking "My ex girlfriend said I should color my hair blonde...what do yo u think?" and then stack that with the Ring Finger Routine....so what should i do after that?....number close? or wait till i can build more attraction/comfort? GIMME ALL THE ADVICE I CAN GET GUYS!! I NEED HELP FROM THE PROS!!!

[Guest]

Totally salvagable -- you're overanalyzing. i'll leave advice to someone more experienced as the best way to approach... first thing get your mindset right so when you do talk to her you are yourself at your most badass.

[Guest]

I say forget smashing her and just friend her. It'll be worth it in the end. Besides, if you go into trying to get her with "omg what should i say what should i say how should i say it" then it's not going to work out right anyways.

College classroom game is a bit different than cold approach game, where you can royally fuck up and still get away with it. If in the classroom you come off as weird, you're fucked for quite a while and with every girl in the room. So if I were you I'd hone my cold approach game until you're pretty good and then start focusing on girls that you're in class with.

So for now, definitely talk to her using any opener you like, but keep in mind that you're not going to fuck her or even try. You're just gonna be friends - by your choice not hers. Meanwhile cold approach as many as possible (there should be hundreds on campus!). Another thing to keep in mind is that even if you DO succeed with her, it's much easier to develop one-itis for someone you're in the same class with every day. Just food for thought.

[Guest]

i would say the whole classroom is your set. go in there and be yourself, say a couple of jokes... i mean you could go up to your hb at the end of class(or whenever that class period you find is the best time) and say

excuse me, are you shy?
(whatever her answer is)
because you have been sitting there for about two days and you havent said anything to me

and boom! bust to another subject.

as for everything else... be yourself!

[Guest]

First off, RELAX. If you freak out when a hot girl is nearby, it makes everyone uncomfortable and girls can smell neediness a mile away.

Second, a classroom is NOT a bar. Do not run rings on fingers, and do not ask for opinions unless you really want her opinion. Play it really slow. Be genuine.

I agree with Acuity. Befriend her. She will have hot friends.

[Guest]

Alex...she sat in front of me in my psych class. She was EXACTLY my type. I never talked to her. and guess what? I kicked myself the rest of the semester for not doing it. So I know you want to be successful when you do talk to her but you know what, do what these guys are saying and stay away from the routines and just open her. With anything. Doesnt matter. Keep your frame strong but inviting. Vector is right, this isnt a bar and she wont have all of her normal defenses up in the classroom. Do some kind of introduction casually. My only point of advise directly is try to get to class early and catch her before class starts if she's not in the middle of something. Do sit next to her. Don't be creepy though. The sooner she's comfortable with you the sooner you can go, 'hey listen, I'm going to grab some coffee right now, if you dont have a class right away you should join me'. If she says no, that's cool. That doesnt mean next time she might give in. Either way dont leave this class and have not given it a shot. I was afc back then and even i was kicking myself months later. Hence my signature.

[Guest]

vector i usually make alot of jokes and play around in class.. i do some openers, but they go with the moment.. i dont feel like im try hard and im doin ok... to be honest i am sort of treating my classes like i would do in day game.. will this bite me in the ass later on?

lol and help from others is cool too =D

[Guest]

Silvermouth by the way, I think it was you who introduced that quote to me (the second one in your sig). It's been very helpful. All the times that I just wanna quit and just give the whole thing up, it's kept me in the game.

I've since stolen it. HA

[Guest]

studying together ALWAYS works if she has any interest at all :) you study, get to know each other then ask her out. That simple. The rest is just being your usual bad ass self :)

[Guest]

hey guys...i completely understand now that i should not be treating this like a bar setting, and im gunna try the sincere intro but in a funny non needy AFC way, but to the best of my ability...all my school life i always wanted some girl in a class but never did anything...its time to FIGHT BACK GOD DAMMIT!!!