what a sad day

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if everything does go wrong... consider what i'm doing now a wake up call... i'll take the risk

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I went through a situation that sounds similar to yours. You might read it:
[url]http://www.dallaslair.org/p/forum/forum_viewtopic.php?20933[/url]

Do what you have to do because you know the situation better than any of us! But, Please keep an open mind, be skeptical of her, and don't get in any hurry to make any decisions. I don't want to see another guy get f'd up by a woman. And never give up your PUA skills even when you find that perfect woman. <-----they don't exist anyways.

You really should figure out what direction you both want to go before you move in together.

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see... i love her and it is hard... i don't even think its going to happen because of recent events... damn but i want it to work out so we'll c... thanks ya'll
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Your heart will betray you... from the bible.. it also says use your mind.

You can love anyone, but do you like any of her qualities, character and values.
Why do you have a negative undertone towards her?
What bothers you?

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because she has a reputation... i've known this girl for 3 years... in my other post about her well tell u her reputation and what she has done to me... we always argue on top of that and trust is the only thing that's getting in the way of my decision :(

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howiestern... i couldn't get into that link

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Link should work now.

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thanks

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because she has a reputation... i've known this girl for 3 years... in my other post about her well tell u her reputation and what she has done to me... we always argue on top of that and trust is the only thing that's getting in the way of my decision :(
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Yeah but trust is one of the most important factors in any type of relationship. I mean if you think about it happens to us pua's too in a different way:if dont get enough rapprt and trust with the chick the interaction sometime wont go the way that we want it to. I mean women dont sleep with the men that they dont trust0and you should listen to your gut feeling here. Yeah trust is the only thing that is standining in your decision but trust is HUGE.

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cj... people in relationships don't generally listen to advice... they generally do what their inner self wants... that being said:

This relationship isn't going to work long term. It's way too much work and not enough trust... feel free to go ahead and try, but don't say you weren't warned :) Just because you want a relationship to work, even if both do, doesn't mean it will...

Your decision would be pretty easy and clear if you were thinking clearly :) I would look inside as to why you're trying to hold on so hard to this person as it'll be an issue in your game going forward -- i would guess it's more to do with your inner self than in your true feelings for her -- she certainly doesn't sound from what i've heard from you that she is going to be the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, and unless that is truly the case why waste more time? If it's one thing my divorce taught me it's not to waste so much time putting effort into a relationship that just isn't going to work at the base level.

take it from the guy who just got done living with his ex for over a month ;)

whatever you decide, good luck!

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I could tell reading Justice's post that his words were the voice of experience talking....And you are dead on bro. I made those same discoveries as well. I finally realized was hanging onto my ex because I feared not having another attractive woman to share my life with. Glad I got over that fear, because life is freakin' crazy good right now and I'm a better man.