Date Location?

[Guest]

Ok I got this hottie from myspace that I've never met on tap for this weekend if all goes as planned. She lives 70 miles from me and she was the one that asked me to meet her half way. So I'm thinking I definitely don't want to meet her somewhere I don't know and my chances are very low for some physical contact. In a DHV kind of way I tell her I will meet her in her town. That way I have a better chance at ending up at her place!

Here's my next issue. I have no clue about the cool spots to go to in her "small" town for a date. I really don't want to let her pick and figure all that out either. Any ideas on how to handle this?

[Guest]

You have to get her drive to your location. If you drive 70 miles out of your way to see her, she WILL lose attraction for you and you'll get blown out.

I had a FB who moved to Austin. She would come to town occasionally and call me and stop in for a booty call about twice a month. Last time she was in town, she mentioned something along the lines of "I would never put in the effort to visit her in Austin." So, a couple of weekends later, I booked a flight on Southwest and flew down to see her. That was the last time I fucked her.

A friend of mine went through the EXACT same thing with a hot FB about 10 years ago. After I told him this story, he was like "WTF, I had the EXACT same thing happen to me."

Bottom line, a high value male with female options, the male they're attracted to, wouldn't ever drive that far out of his way to see some girl he's not even in a relationship with.

[Guest]

Agree and disagree with alpha.

You can still get laid with this chick... but driving there automatically puts you in a boyfriend frame instead of a FB frame.

As for the locations, do a bit of online research to find some spots, pick and go... you won't be familiar with them, but it'll be an adventure ;)

[Guest]

Initially she volunteered to come see me, except it was in 3weeks and I didn't want to drag this thing out that long and risk losing it.

Now like a typical woman she changes her freak'n mind & says she's coming here this weekend to go shopping! blinga dinga linga $$$

[Guest]

screw her good... she'll be back for more ;) just keep ya frame strong remember she's playing in your world, not you in hers ;)