Having hard time getting Day 2s

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I guess I do decent approaching or so... but I can't get Day 2s for some reason.
I don't know what I am doing wrong. I must be making them feel that I am needy or something.
It's ridiculous. Ever since my journey as PUA in April, I have # closed, kiss closed and such but never gotten Day 2s. (almost f-close before... but didn't happen blah). I even got dam close to f-close, but never gotten anywhere close to day 2.
plllzz help me out here fellas.

[Guest]

You need to focus a lot on qualification and comfort when you meet the girl. If all you do is attraction then she will usually not return texts/calls. What do you do for qualification and comfort and how long do you spend on each?

The first contact should be a text with your name signed on the end. I like to use callback humor (a nickname or running joke we had during the meet) and I send the first text either that night or the next day. After that, you basically increase the frequency of contact (you can do phone or text) and then suggest doing something. Of course it is best for you to have set up a date when you met her. Don't just say "Let's hang out sometime," start talking about a really cool place you like enough to get her interested. Then change the subject. When you get her number bring it up again and set firm plans (i.e. Thursday at 8).

Give us more detail on what you do during the initial interactions and for phone/text game.

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I guess I only set up one hoop for girls to jump. I don't really know a good way/approach to set up a hoop in a way so that she won't be offended or anything. I don't think I don't do much comfort at all during interaction. Maybe I don't do it at all. I plainly don't know what to do for comfort phase. I think u r right about doubting those two phases of mine. I don't do much qualificatino nor comfort at all. Not because I don't want to, but I dont' know a way to go about it.


I just gotten text plan like a week ago so I only have done one text game. I usually introduce myself then nag (which I think I shouldn't nag... coz it seems like nagging at this point is useless) and tried to set a hoop for her to jump before setting up a date. I usually ask her in a way like "do u want to come shop with me on friday?" etc. I don't ask her if she is free. I usually tell her I am free friday and this day and that day only. U can choose out of 3 days sort of deal.

It seems like it never really went well though. I think I need some solid structure for my text game.

As far as the online game goes, I use about 1-3 banter lines to get the conversation started and try to tease her a bit then try to direct our conversation towards a date. So far it hasn't been successful.

I really need help with text game/online game.
If you need more details so that u can analyze the interaction and such, let me know. thanks sal!