For guys with several girlfriends:

[Guest]

I don't tell them we're exclusive. I don't bring it up. They seldom do, either. But they do tend to start assuming the wrong things.

Are you saying that you tell them from the get go that you don't want an exclusive relationship? Or do you normally mention this around the 5th d2 or so? What is your normal MO on this Lion?

[Guest]

After we have sex for the first time and are about to hang out again I always say "Hey, just wanted to let you kow that I'm not looking for and don't want a relationship" and they'll always say "Hey, that's cool. Me either. I'm sorry if I came on too strong" or something like that. You have to bring it up from the get-go before they start drawing their own conclusions. It works so incredibly well too. Almost any time I call an FB she is available for me because she knows that I can find someone else just as easily.

Let us know how it goes.

[Guest]

Hrmm, that may be a problem im having in the maintenance department. Thats why my myspace page fucked me, I tend to stretch the truth(lie, lie, lie). Hell its been working and keeping me out of truble, for the most part, all my life. String along 2-5 chicks at a time for as long as possible then dump the ones I see are about to become an issue. The truth may set you free, but lies get me laid. Jesus, at this point I wouldnt even know how not to lie to a chick.

[Guest]

What's so ironic about all this, is, if you tell them you want a relationship early on, they'll dump you.

[Guest]

Lies only screw you over. Telling the truth gets you laid more than you can possibly imagine. They will pretend to be mad at you but then they will want to fuck your brains out.

Yes, NEVER say you WANT a relationship unless you never wan to see the girl again.

[Guest]

Lion and PC are right.

Tell the truth about your life and her place in it. She'll respect you more than you can ever imagine, even at the detriment of her dignity. She will shit test you and act as if she's mad, your job is to blow off her objections with the frame that you can leave whenever you see fit. By telling her that you see other people, you essentially make yourself a more valuable commodity...she'll want to buy you that much more badly, and by 'buy' I mean fuck.

However, it should be noted that like everything else in our life there are exceptions. Some women simply won't be cool with such an arrangement. I once had a married chick, read that again a married chick, give me the ultimateum to stop seeing other girls once she found out I had other girls. The hypocracy of a married chick telling me to stop seeing other girls was increbibly humorous. As such, I only responded to her objection with booming laughter...

Finally, it's just easier to tell the truth...far less to have to remember.

[Guest]

I've been in situations before where I didn't say anything about exclusivity, and neither did she, and she ended up eventually making assumptions and getting mad at me when I turned out not to be making the same assumptions. Even though it's not my fault, I still try to prevent the situation anyway.

So now fairly early on I will describe the problems I've had in the past and how even though it's not my fault, I felt bad because the women got so mad at me. And long story short I tell them not to make assumptions.

[Guest]

I've got three women in the new rotation right now. One I've been with once, the other four times and the third once. I guess it's not too late for the "I don't want exclusivity" talk with any of them at this point.

The problem is, based on past experience, once you throw this down, they start in with their jealousy and other stupid shit. They'll talk about other guys they're fucking, which I think is a lie half the time, and how these other guys have really big dicks and so on and so on. It just gets old really fast. I learned how to deal with it effectively, but it still gets old. For the record, I NEVER bring up other women I'm seeing when I'm with them.

[Guest]

Here is the thing. When you make this comment to a girl understand that she may very well see/sleep with other guys. You have to be confident enough that this won't bother you. There is always gonna be a guy with a bigger cock. Just know that you are awesome and way better than this person.

I tell girls before I even sleep with them that I have no interest in a relationship and I see other girls. They can walk right there and if they don't well...they can't say shit afterwards. Now sure sometimes I sleep with girls before this conversation takes place but that is because they were whores and slept with me within a few hours of knowing me.

I also let girls know I don't lie. So if they ask me a question they better get ready for the answer. I won't spare their feelings. I remember back when I used to spare girls feelings. It was so annoying having to skirt around the truth. Now I am just upfront and honest about everything. It is so freaking refreshing. I know the girls like it too.

Lie if you want to have some make believe relationship...but the truth will set you free.

Ohh and another thing. Wether you lie or be truthful unless you are willing to commit 100% to any girl she will eventually leave. So get ready for your harem to turn over on a consistent basis. No girl is going to stick around forever. There might be one or two that stick it out for a long ass time but for the most part you are lucky to get a few months out of any one girl. Just look at it like this. You are getting Strange Pussy every once in a while which is awesome.

[Guest]

I do enjoy the strange...