Good text exchange (a follow-up to FR: 'Natural' Day Game Approach)

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This post details the text game I have been playing with the day game approach that lasted 40 mins. You can find it in the FR section of the main board. I met her on Tuesday and she Myspace friended me on Tuesday night. I didn't get around to approving her on Wednesday and then around 8:30pm, she texts me:

Her: I’m having some rum and coke…the night is going downhill from here hahaha…told u I was a little crazy
Me: I knew you had a wild girl side! Let it out tech girl ;)
Her: A wild side as opposed to what? Lol oh yeah a dorky side
Her: U have a new friend on myspace by the way…since u love to check it so much lol
Me: Wilder than you ;)
Her: Your new friend? Oh well I guess you’ll have to go find out…Lol 
Her: Tipsalipsalips!
Her: U dare me to sing karaoke?
Me: You said you were wild…do it!
Her: Hahahaha oh no I’m scared
Me: You better be more adventurous tomorrow  get up there!
Her: Oh u know I will mr. [insert major here] ;)
Her: Friends and low places biatch! Hahahaha

[i]As you can see, she was texting me way more than I was and at first I was a little freaked out. But we hinted at some sexual shit in these texts. The next portion was around noon today.[/i]

Me: Hey tech girl, come to my place around 5 and eat something first
Her: Hey! I would love to but my friend’s niece and nephew are in town and I told her I would go to dinner with them
Me: Lol, nerd  It’s prob better I don’t start that early…my friends are lookin to PARTY!
Her: Hahaha yeah that’s what my night was like last night

[i]Here I responded like she was a nerd for not wanting to hang out with me and demonstrating that I will still have fun without her. Regardless of whether her excuse was legit or not, I think my response made me more attractive to her. Then, 2 hours later:[/i]

Me: Who bailed you out?
Her: Hahaha what?!
Me: I assume you were in jail last night if you really let out your crazy side ;)
Her: Lol WOW. Not quite THAT crazy haha

[i]This was just to show her even further that I am not hung up on that fact that she cancelled. Then, about an hour later:
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Her: So what are u and your crazy friends up to tonight?
Me: gonna hit the bars and then ride in a tornado 
Her: Sounds like a blast. I may be doing that as well. Imagine that haha

[i]Then, about 9pm:
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Her: My roomie and I are going to X bar later. Where are you going?
Me: Starting at Y bar then going to X bar…I bet you are gonna drink fruity drinks
Her: Hahaha u know it ;) just a warning...i'm already tipsy haha

[i]I will update everyone on how it goes, but I think that the way I handled the cancellation was really good and I will try to emulate it in the future. Tonight, my goal is to win over her friend and then get her in isolation and kino escalate the shit out of her. I will throw in sexual frames and act like she is trying to seduce me. When the time seems right, I will go for the pull. I am kinda nervous writing this because if it doesn’t go through everyone will see my failure ;). Oh well, that is part of the process.
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Sal u got this shit on lock my man get after that shit and give us the SNL report later!!!!

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Yeah you are in with this chick. You won't nail her tonight...but the next outing it will be just the two of you and BAM!

Unless they didn't ride together...and then umm well...

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Let me just start off by saying I hate virgins! The night went pretty well, I met up with the girl from the coffee shop and won over her friend and her. About 5 minutes in she went off to talk to a friend. I texted another girl that said she would be out who is hotter than my original target. She was there and came over to talk to me with her 2 friends. I won over the 2 obstacles and then isolated my target (here after referred to as HB Dirty Girl) by saying we were gonna walk around. BTW, I met her on a day game approach about 2 weeks ago and had not hung out with her yet. We had a good 10-15 minutes in isolation. I kinoed, qualified a little more, started the question game, and set a sexual frame. The first question she asked was “How many girls have you slept with since you have been in Stillwater.” I told her my actual number and she didn’t care. I asked her where the craziest place she had had sex was and she said at a party in front of people. FREAKY! Anyway, I dropped some SOIs both sexual and non and said “Stop looking at me like that, if we weren’t in a bar, you would be in trouble.” I pinched her ass and she acted surprised at first, but I held my frame and stared into her eyes and I could tell she liked it. I seeded a date and she said it would be fun. Soon her friends came over and I talked to them for a bit. Then, a guy friend (I’m pretty sure he is an orbiter with no game) came over. I talked for a bit, and like the tool that he is, he tried to ignore me. I ejected soon after because I wanted to work on the original target.

I ran into a friend who said my original target (hereafter referred to as HB coffee) was looking for me and wasn’t trying to ditch me. My friend said, “Little does she know that you actually ditched her.” Haha! My friend also said she was talking to some other guy and I replied that it was okay because I am better than him and I will steal her back! I saw my wing Magoo and he followed me in from a distance. I re-opened her and addressed the guy for a minute and almost immediately he was blown out. I didn’t even need the wing. I isolated her downstairs and ran through the same stuff mentioned above as I did with HB Dirty Girl—Kino, sexual frames, question game. Soon though, she basically asked me if I thought she had her v-card. I said no but it turns out she is a fucking virgin. I did not react and said it is no big deal. We kept talking for another 5 min or so. I tried to go for the kiss but she turned her head. I played it off by saying she was shy (with a devilish smile on my face) and changing the subject. That is the thing I have noticed with k-close attempts. As long as you don’t pout, you usually don’t lose points. I just chalk it up (verbally) to anything except the possibility that she didn’t want to kiss me. Usually no just means not now or not here. The Don gave me a few phrases (e.g. I understand, not in public and I understand, not in front of your friends). In my opinion, going for it is much more attractive to girls than the scripted kiss closes. Anyway, I ejected to talk to my friends and hung out with them for a bit.

Later, I ran into HB Dirty Girl at the bar but she was blowing me off. At first I thought it was because she had seen me with HB Coffee (which she had) but I later realized she was SUPER wasted. Plus she was sitting with the orbiter and I’m sure he was trying to talk relentless shit on me. I opened a few other sets and got a solid number close. Then, I ran into my wing talking to HB Coffee and her hot roommate. I winged him and talked to my target again. She ended up going to talk to a friend and her roommate went home. If she wasn’t a virgin, this would have been perfect logistics. I tried to get her to come to a table with me and my friends but she broke off to talk with a friend. My wing came over and told me that she had said that I grabbed her ass and she didn’t like it. It is funny because I did the exact same shit to both girls and one loved it (HB Dirty) and the other felt uncomfortable (HB Coffee). I decided neither set was gonna pull and I started to leave around closing time. I waved bye to HB Coffee and she stopped the convo she was in to come over to me. Apparently the ass grab didn’t piss her off that bad ;). As I was walking down the stairs, HB Dirty Girl was coming down, basically being held up by her orbiter who I am sure tried to take advantage of her ridiculous drunkenness. She called to me and I told the orbiter to take care of her. No sense in trying to pull a girl who would pass out.

[b]I will try to contact HB Dirty Girl in a few days because if she is interested she would be an easy lay and she is hot. I am thinking about saying fuck it to HB Coffee because she is not very sexual. Let me know what you all think.
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If you don't want a GF let HBCoffee go now. Unless you just think she is really cool and you could turn her into a good friend. She prob has many slutty friends. Just make sure if you friend her she doesn't think it is because she is a virgin. This will piss her off big time and she will hate you.

Having girls that are just friends is awesome. I just haven't figured out how to achieve that yet.