Question...

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So we've all seen it. I just wanted everyone's opinion on something. What is with the one hb8+ winged by two or more female sumo wrestling crack airport security squad heinous friends? I mean, sure there's the ugly duckling turned hb syndrome, or I suppose they may be insecure, but I'm seeing just a ridiculous amount of this scenario. Maybe I need to change my venues, but it seems pervasive. Any thoughts?

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Well blame it on society...man America is FAT.

Anyways they are used to the hottie getting hit on constantly. Many people will say befried the two fatties and neg her. It will be so out of the ordinary if done correctly they will be freaking out.

[Guest]

I see this all the time...........And yeah I used to ignore the fatties and they would eventually pull the hottie away from me........I keep trying to remember not to ignore the fat friends......but it's a hard habit to break.

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one time i paid too much attention to the fatties and the hottie told me she couldnt do anything because her friend was in love with me...YUCK!! reminds me of the movie the hottie and the nottie

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Yeah that's exactly what i worry about..........if I start talking to the fat friend.....then hot friend will back off at the first sign of interest in me by her fat friend........because she knows she can find someone else and that her fat friend rarely gets attention.

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that is life in ft worth

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It's perception.

Here is the deal. Everyone has a mental buffer. We only see what we allow ourselves to see. Some of us only see the hot chick with the 2 fat friends, some of us see only girls with their boy fiends. Then there is the only fat chicks complaint. One of my favorites that I heard was,"man look at all the players in this place, every guy has 2 hot chicks."

Here's something that will fuck with your perception. Go to Spankees on lower greenville. It is a BBW swingers bar. Here's why you should go. Remember the hot chick with 2 fat friends thing? Well it's true at Spankees. Here's the deal though, at Spankees, 300 lbs or more is hot. The HB9+ is low value there. Ass isn't big enough, she has no headlights and the guys are afraid they would hurt them, not enough cushion. The fat chicks get all the attention and the hottie gets left at the bar. What's really interesting is how the SHB starts to see herself. Small boobs, no ass, they get real down on themselves. They start doubting their attractiveness. They become real receptive to attention. The big downside of spankees is the rolls of blubber in spandex. It's just painful. If you can get past the gravity field of the regulars without being sling shoted out of their orbit and out the front door there are some real gems there. At least there where the few times I got drug there by the Large swinger couple I used to be friends with.

In any event think about what you expect to see when you go out. Think about what type of set holds you back. If that is all you see maybe it is your belief coloring your perception.

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Sorry about that buddy, I'll try to find a set with at least two hb8's next time :)

I see this alot and the way I handle it is talk to the two fatties first- don't necessarily show interest- just get in to a conversation or joke back and forth, no kino, no escalation or value searching etc... just joking back and forth and make them like you, then start pulling their friend in to the conversation. Once the target realizes that her friends like you, and you have expressed no interest whatsoever in them, they are much more likely to be open to your advances.

I think Silvermouth here is referring to last wednesday at the pourhouse. The way things worked out I sat and people watched with the fatties for a few minutes, pointed out some people i thought were odd, got their opinions, agreed or disagreed, poked and prodded them until they thought i was funny etc.... I got them thinking about reading people, body language, etc...- At this point I could tell the HB was somewhat interested in the conversation, but I hadn't really allowed her to talk or be involved. The two fatties loved it- so I asked them if they wanted me to read their friend for them, so they could determine wether or not I was full of shit. I read her palm, did the cube- and cold read her- The whole time I was getting input from her friends on how dead on I was etc... and that kept the whole set and all the attention on me, then I excused myself and walked over to open another set- and an hour or so later went back, danced with the hb8 and her thunderchunk friends, number closed, and got them to come out the next night to cowboys RR where they bought all my drinks and I danced with the HB all night. After which they came back to our house and played dirty board games. Unfortunately I wasn't able to F- close- the two friends ended up being like dallas cowboys linemen and were determined to CB me as they are very good friends with the HB's boyfriend... and they had to go back home to Austin the next day. But all is well and good, she is coming back out on Monday, hopefully without the Sumo Squad.

For me it's all about really making them believe I'm not interested, just a social fun guy, then coming to the realization after I've hung out for a bit I found something interesting about their hot friend, other than the fact I want to bone her, and they are cool with me so they let it go to see what happens.