Touching her hip

[Guest]

I am very comfortable with reaching out and touching a girl on the hip. I even do it sometimes right when I open a girl or with girls i am friends with and I don't even realize I do it half the time. I have generally considered it just really good kino but everyone i tell about it thinks I am crazy and thinks that it is too forward or creepy or something. Does anyone else here do this as kino too? Or what is your thoughts on this?

[Guest]

I do it more when starting a girl to move here or there like, *Hand on hip* "Hey follow me..."

I also find it easier kino later in a set. Pull towards you and what not...I honestly don't know if I ever do this earlier or not...

I'd say if you feel comfortable doing it keep doing it. If you act like you know what you're doing, no one will ask questions.

[Guest]

haha yea, I do it sometimes right off the bat, instead of touching her arm or whatever i will usually put my hand on their hip or lightly touch their hip as I do the opener. The only time i've ever really been called out on it is when a guy saw me do it to his g/f and she didn't even notice lol

[Guest]

when I dip, you dip, we dip.

[Guest]

I say keep doing it if it is working. No reason to fix something that isnt broke.

[Guest]

I personally do not touch or do any kind of kino until I have qualified that the girl I am talking to is someone that I am interested in.

I believe that showing too much attention, intention or attraction before you have decided she is someone you would like to be associated with, no matter how physically pretty she is, is counter-productive.

Once she has proven herself to you (for more than her looks), then you should escalate.

Just my personal opinion......something lacking in most guy's game is true qualification

[Guest]

lol go for kiss close on the hip....playfully
bite it and teaste it a lil!!
Girls Love that!
hands are boring to them (no offense)

well if there's not enough comfort or iois
and she rejected just be like
"hey i was hungry, lets go eat something, wendys sound good?"
but it should work assuming she's really into you

[Guest]

I think we kind of got off the point I was asking if anyone else really does this? It seems like, no one else does lol. Also kino before qualification is perfectly fine in my opinion. It starts building from the get go the idea of physical contact. So then when she does qualify herself we already have some physical contact going on.

[Guest]

I touch everyone. Guys, girls.
With guys, it can show being friendly, and sometimes dominance.
Girls, friendly, lack of fear, and later on, physical escalation/

[Guest]

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Just my personal opinion......something lacking in most guy's game is true qualification
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I agree with you...but what do you do when you try to qualify a girl and she doesn't qu alify or disqualifies herself?

WF