"I want to date you" opener

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Out the other night with a friend. I asked her what one thing could a guy say to make yu want him. She thought for a moment then said one time this guy came up and said "I want to date you". And it worked for him. I immediately go to the hottest girl I saw, whom was at a nearby table with mix 5 set.

Mojo (opening the group): Excuse me guys
(then kneeling down next to HB8): I want to date you
HB8: Awwww
I could tell from her facial expressions she was flattered! Then she says:
HB8 (for the groups sake?): I have a bf
Mojo (calling back to my friend): Nope, that line didn't work, she has a bf.

The group laughs. It was funny.
The opener did work. I open an HB7. Works like a charm. Then another with success. Though with any direct method, just havig the balls to walk up and do it is a DHV. Shows you have confidence.

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What do you mean by "worked"? She may not have had a bf.

[Guest]

She was not lieing. Hearing the genuine flattery in the tone of her voice and then change in tone when she mentioned she had a bf, I could tell she was not lieing. Being able to read the slightest of non-verbal communication is useful in gaming and life.

Try this expirement to practice. Ask a friend to think of someone he truely loves (Mother, Wife, etc). Study his face, get a feeling for it. Then, ask him to think of someone he despises, his worse enemy. Again, study his face. Ask him to do all of this without making any facial movements. None. Now, ask him to think of the loved one or despised one without saying a word or making a facial movement. Check out to see if you can tell which one he is thinking about.

You can tell more about a person thoughts than you realize. You will notice even though you can not pinpoint it, you WILL be able to tell which person he is thinking of. His non-verbal communication betrays him. Slight adjustments in his facial muscles are out of his control and will differ depending on who he is thinking of.

Good exercise to do to better read people. And when you get good, it makes for a nice routine.

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This may very well work, and if Mojo believes it is having success, I'm willing to try it.

That said, I recall how someone posted how going up and telling girls they're beautiful & asking if they're single had --what he believed to be positive responses...though I don't think he was making progress. Girls love to be flattered. If a fat girl came up to me and flattered me...as occasionally happens--the fat girl at Clear for example...., it doesn't mean she's going to get laid.

If you have enough attraction, it doesn't seem like she'd throw up the boyfriend defense. In some cases, I've noticed girls throw up the bf defense as a shittest while still attracted to you...

Does anyone have any good responses to the "I have a boyfriend" when she is still attracted to you?

WF

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Could or could not work depending on the situation. Remember though that most hot girls are involved with somebody, and making her answer a logical question like that that fast, especially in front of her friends will, at least most of the time, invoke the response you got.

What you might want to try is saying that to a lesser hottie in the group (like not your actual target), and then pretend like you are all offended or joke around about how you would make a much better boyfriend or something like that. Not a bad opener actually.

Erock

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what could also be done from here is open to the target then game another girl in the set and work your way back to the target after you have built report. It would be a good opener to transition into a group.

[Guest]

[quote="Westfall"]This may very well work, and if Mojo believes it is having success, I'm willing to try it.

That said, I recall how someone posted how going up and telling girls they're beautiful & asking if they're single had --what he believed to be positive responses...though I don't think he was making progress. Girls love to be flattered. If a fat girl came up to me and flattered me...as occasionally happens--the fat girl at Clear for example...., it doesn't mean she's going to get laid.

If you have enough attraction, it doesn't seem like she'd throw up the boyfriend defense. In some cases, I've noticed girls throw up the bf defense as a shittest while still attracted to you...

Does anyone have any good responses to the "I have a boyfriend" when she is still attracted to you?

WF[/quote]

hmm how about "That's Cute" then continue gaming... or "good.. he can keep you company while I'm not around"...

thats all I got.. for now :P

[Guest]

I had a buddy in high school who would go up to girls saying "Wanna fuck?" and 8/10 it would work.

As we all know the opener doesn't matter!

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[quote="the_wildcard"][quote:82aab97869]
Does anyone have any good responses to the "I have a boyfriend" when she is still attracted to you?

WF[/quote]
"good.. he can keep you company while I'm not around"...

thats all I got.. for now :P[/quote:82aab97869]

Nice...Imma steal that.

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[quote="Westfall"][quote:3aaa0cde5a="the_wildcard"][quote:3aaa0cde5a]
Does anyone have any good responses to the "I have a boyfriend" when she is still attracted to you?

WF[/quote]
"good.. he can keep you company while I'm not around"...

thats all I got.. for now :P[/quote:3aaa0cde5a]

Nice...Imma steal that.[/quote:3aaa0cde5a]

A couple of times when a girl has told me she had a BF or was married my reply was:

1. I don't mind if he watches.
or
2. Cool, he can hold the Video camera.

Neither one has gotten a positive responce. I can't imagine why. :-)